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Maxfire22001
Member # 8425
posted 06-02-2002 07:20 PM
What do I do? My girlfriend goes from one extrem to another. At one minute she is all happy and go luck wanting to talk and be around me the next second she goes off on me for saying I love her.
celery
Member # 5594
posted 06-02-2002 07:26 PM
Maybe she's uncomfortable with you saying that you love her.Love is a very strong word that is used too much these days, you may mean it, but maybe she's not ready to express her self that way.
So if you wanna tell her how much you like her just word it differently like "i like you so much" or " i like you alot"
And if saying "i love you" isnt that case of why she is getting mad, then maybe she's just having a bad day, or maybe she's having mood swings that day (PMS)
FalconWing
Member # 7090
posted 06-02-2002 07:26 PM
wow stop stressing it sounds like manic depression its the same thing i have but believe me you'll live. My boyfriend is still breathing and not insane... i think. Oh well all you can really do is be there for her on her down times.
Maxfire22001
Member # 8425
posted 06-02-2002 07:31 PM
She freak out when I say it to her normally only on the down times. She drives me nuts at times but I know that its all going to be better in a couple.
FalconWing
Member # 7090
posted 06-02-2002 07:36 PM
hey it's ok if she does have it then on down times it relly hard to get things straight and she could say or do things that she dosen't mean. I hope you understand that.
Miss Thang
Member # 5508
posted 06-02-2002 07:51 PM
Crazy girls are more fun. I have to say that because I am a crazy girl. My boyfriend always complains that right when he thinks he's got me figured out, I do something that completely confuses him. Your girlfriend sounds just like me. She's just confused! I don't think she knows what she wants all the time... she probably just wants to keep it simple... she probably just wants to be with you without all the serious stuff.. and love is a very serious word. That doesn't mean you shouldn't say it... you should always say how you feel. You need to always be honest with her and just tell her whatever's on your mind, be it good or bad. I'm just saying that you need to realize that seriousness of the word love and be sympathetic if it sometimes freaks her out. It scares the hell outta me. Don't worry too much, ok? Just have fun being with her... you're young and you just need to keep it simple. Don't worry about her little quirks... you know that the quirks are what seperates her from the other girls. Just have fun, tell her what's on your mind.. and she'll do the same. And mood swings go with the territory. It's called PMS. And I don't know one girl who doesn't get it. If they don't, well then, they're just not as cool. nah just kiddin. But yeah- just chill! Have fun with her! If you are telling her you love her, she must be a pretty awesome girl- so focus on her awesome qualities. Don't worry so much about the bad qualities.
Maxfire22001
Member # 8425
posted 06-03-2002 07:35 PM
I know that she is on a down time and I do think crazy girls are cool. They help keep me in check and I like that. I like a girl who can do that cause that makes it to were I'm not to romantic all the time and I can joke around some. If not I think my brain would have fried by now.
idied4beauty
Member # 6670
posted 06-03-2002 08:05 PM
It sounds like its the "love" thing that's the issue. How long has it been since you've been together? My boyfriend told me he loved me after one week, and I'm the kind of girl who says I love that person after a long time and I really mean it. I mean, I'm not saying you don't love her, I'm just saying that it's a big word. I haven't said it to any boyfriend yet.
Maxfire22001
Member # 8425
posted 06-04-2002 08:25 PM
It will be nine months on the 17 of june and I think she just has a down day every now and then cause It dont bother her any other time.
FalconWing
Member # 7090
posted 06-06-2002 07:59 PM
i don't think it's the love thing maybe shes just having a bad day... or week...or life lol but hey maybe your making it all better for her. Does it seem like you are?