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Member # 4377
posted 07-15-2001 02:29 PM
I need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are running out of date ideas! It seems like we have done everything under the sun like going out to eat, the movies, ice cream, bowling, golfing, walking, going on a picnic, looking at the stars, concerts... seriously everything. We are getting a little frusterated that we cannot come up with anything new to do and most times we'll just end up going over one another's house and watching a movie or something. So please... Do you have any date ideas?! Thanks!
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Member # 568
posted 07-15-2001 06:46 PM
supermarket home furnishing stores parks skating (inline, boards, even scooters -- ywah, that's not skating, but anyway) volunteer work together
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Member # 3133
posted 07-16-2001 01:03 AM
This might sound kinda not like a dating idea but why not go to the gym and workout together? Or go and watch the sun set. You can surprise him w/ cooking a gourmet dinner for two w/ candles,flowers,etc. Or you could go swimming together, or even better......in the jacuzzi
Member # 406
posted 07-16-2001 11:50 AM
-sidewalk chalk -offer to babysit some neices or nephews together -go camping -go on a cyber date (use an instant messaging program and use :: for actions and * for sounds. *doorbell rings* : pens door:: ::hands over flowers: -minurature golfing -go to a poetry reading -the aquarium -the beach -spend a day cross dressing in each other clothes -spend a day shopping for new jeans after he ripped the seam in your old ones -make a zine
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Member # 2176
posted 07-17-2001 01:55 PM
Do stuff your not expected to do, get on a bus to a place you havent been in a while. Go to boston, and chill in china town. Vist a place you've never been before. Dream. cook a meal. run away from home. act like little kids. play pranks. sit in the park and asses the appereance of other people. make icecream sundays with creative ingrediants. Play "don't touch the ground" write fictions. kidnap relatives. attack visit friends.
theres so much to do out there, just think about something you enjoy and push it even further.
Member # 43609
posted 08-11-2009 03:35 PM
I would just say pay attention to what eachother likes. Do things that make you laugh and sometimes when you do somwthing that makes you feel like a little kid again can be the funnnest things to do.
*Go to chuckee cheese or a arcade. *do kareoke together. *go to a pottery class and make something. *go thrift store shopping. *do somwthing fancy and get all dolled up. *go to a concert doesn't have to be expensive one also going to a stand up comedy act would be great you would both be laughing like crazy. watch a movie and play the drinking game while your watching the movie. *go to the zoo. make a meal together like home made pizza or something. *do something outside ( roller balding, biking, sports, beach, fly a kite at the park and have picnic) *be really silly and random like go to walmart get some bean bag chairs and go sit down on them and jus play video games for a while or this might sound immature and I guess it is but its super funny fi you both like to be goofy get a fart machine and put it in either of your pokets and go to the store and when you walk by some one press the button to make the noise. Seeing peoples reactions will be hilarious but try 2 keep a straight face lol. *Go to the pet store or the pund and look at the puppies and kittens. *go try a new resturant youv'e never tried before. *go to the art museum. *take creative pictures. make art together. *do somehting different with your hairstyles. *take random dance classes somwhere. *volunteer at a homeless shelter for a day. *go skinny dipping at a lake or something at night in the moon light ( very fun)! *go to a drive in movie *theme park. *get a pericing together. *go to a public place with lots of people get something to eat and sit there and just watch all the funny people. *go on a horse and carraige ride in the city. *cuddle up with scarie movies. *make a comic book of eachother. *ride the bus around and explore the city. *play in the rain. *&watch your favorite disney movies. *have a bonfire. *paint your room. *get a tattoo *watch your favorite cartoons. *do something your both scared of. *take a sick day together. *spray paint something. idk just get creative or do something you have never done b 4 or somehting you really would like to do. [I had to remove two of your suggestions here because one would have endangered the safety of others and the other one was rather offensive against people with mental illnesses--orca] [ 08-11-2009, 04:03 PM: Message edited by: orca ]
Member # 43186
posted 08-13-2009 01:42 AM
I'd ease up on the pressure to come up with new and exciting things. Pressuring yourself and each other is more likely to put strain on your relationship than to come up with creative ideas, and you've said it's already frustrating you. I really enjoy just being with my partners; talking, cuddling, cracking jokes, being spontaneous. Then again, some people enjoy structured/planned activities more than others, and I've never been one of those. YMMV.