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Member # 2619
posted 02-04-2001 07:29 PM
Alright, this girl, and I are really good friends, and her boyfriend broke up. So she hooked up with this kid.Every Saturday almost I would go over her house, and that kid would be there, and we would all be having fun. Well, her boyfriend wanted her back,so she dropped the kid, and hurt him really bad. Now she like hates him. Well me and my friend ended up going to the movies with him last night, and I think I like him because he is really hott, and he is such a sweet heart, but I don't want her to get mad at me so I don't know what to do
Please help me!
Member # 1071
posted 02-04-2001 08:28 PM
She hates him now?
Then no problem. If she doesn't like him, you ought to be able to date him. If she doesn't like him because he was, say, a player and treated her terribly, then maybe it's not a good idea. But if she doesn't like him just because, then go for it.
If she still has problems about you two, talk to her about it. If she threatens to dump you just because of this guy, then who do you value more? Personally I think that if your friend can't accept the fact that you're happy with this guy, then you're better of without her. But I'm not you.
Give yourself over to absolute pleasure!! With protection, of course.
Member # 1194
posted 02-04-2001 09:50 PM
How did she go from being with him to hating him? And are you sure
shewould call it "hate" ? Not that I don't think you should go for this guy, because if she truly doesn't have feelings for him then I say GO FOR IT but sometimes when you like a guy for a while you try to mask your feelings by saying you dislike him (I have done that) So I'd just make sure it's cool....then go get him!
"Live a balanced life - Learn some and think some, and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some." ~~ Robert Fulghum, author ~~
Member # 2050
posted 02-05-2001 04:32 AM
I say just talk to your friend about it. Tell her you kinda have feelings for this guy and would it be a problem if you started contacting him or going out with him.
The way I see it it shouldn't be much of a problem. After all, she doesn't have a hold on him and nothing is going on between them now.
So just ask your friend and see what happens. Gd luck.
Member # 2619
posted 02-05-2001 02:40 PM
Alright, she told me on Friday that she hates him, and can't stand him, and he's only trying to be supportive to her. She just doesn't care that he's trying to do that. This kid is not a player, he is sooo nice and just tries to always make me happy, so i don't know, i guess i will talk to her about it. Thanks