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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Lin: [QB] My guy smokes too but I am honestly fine with it. I used to make alot of noise about it but we just ended up quarrelling. More like me shouting and he keeping quiet but anyways. I guess I just learnt to accept the fact that it is his body and he can ingest whatever he wants to. Of course, 90% of my friends smoke so I'm more open about him smoking. But he knows that if we were to have a future together, he will have to stop. Plus he has a limit when he smokes. He only smokes maximum 5 sticks a day unless he goes clubbing or something so I trust him. If it really upsets you that he smokes, help him to stop. Gradually. I have never seen a smoker who could stop immediately. Ask him to gradually cut down and be supportive about it. He is going through withdrawal symptoms and that is really tough so he really needs you. In the meantime, why not do stuff that doesn't involve or allow smoking. Like cycling, walking around in the mall. Is smoking allowed in public places in the States? Coz it's banned almost everywhere here. [IMG]http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/smile.gif[/IMG] And no, the guilt trip doesn't work. It just makes the both of you feel bad but nothing actually comes out of it. Just get him to gradually cut down or tell him not to smoke when he is with you. That should cut down the number of sticks already. All the best hon. Hope it all works out. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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