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Member # 2115
posted 12-15-2000 06:43 PM
okay there's this guy *J* .. we're pretty good friends, i'd say he was one of my best guy friends... anyway, some of my friends say that he always "flirts" with me. at first i ignored them and told them that he SO wasnt ..but lately..i dunno. like sometimes he just sits and stares at me, and when i stare back, he whispers "i love you" and smiles. i just give him a weird look sayin "yea ok i'm sure u do" and he gives me this cheesy smile. he never says that he's "just kidding" (but for all i know, he probably is)..this happens a lot..like the other day when he was staring again, i asked him why he always stares at me, and he goes "just admiring ur beauty" and then he turned around, he didn't laugh or say he was kidding either. ..what do you think? because he's really starting to confuse me.
Member # 1071
posted 12-15-2000 09:31 PM
Whoa Nelly! From what you've said this guy really does like you. Plain and simple. And what'a truly amazing, is that he comes right out and admits. I doubt he actually loves you so soon, but he sure as hell likes you.
Yeah, well I'VE got blood dripping out of a hole between my legs, do YOU?!? there is a difference between being stupid and being ditzy. i ought to know
Member # 2114
posted 12-15-2000 09:59 PM
I think he definatly has feelings that run beyond typical platonic friendship stuff. But he may feel weird telling you so he tells you by staring at you. Next time he says that you should call him on it. Do what you feel is comfortable. If you want to pursue a relationship w/him go for it.
*~*We love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly*~*
Member # 568
posted 12-16-2000 02:26 PM
i'm no head-shrinker, but...
he ... likes ... you.
ask him to go out for strawberry phosphates after school
i'm being corny.
Someday, I will have a sexy car...a very...sexy...car!
Member # 2191
posted 12-26-2000 07:51 PM
woW!~* sounds like a cool bean. Well i betya he likes ya, but I'd be so scared to make the first move nomatter how confident I'd be to knoe he'd say "yes." I guess I'm a wimp though
**i stop and i stare too much, afraid that i care too much**
[This message has been edited by muddcookie (edited 12-26-2000).]
Member # 2181
posted 12-26-2000 11:11 PM
EK! AHHH! I had this happened to me not too looong ago! What I did was ask "Hey, I'm just checking-but do you think we're just friends or are we more?" He told me he thought we were just buddies-so I just replied "GOOD! I was just checking!" (Sigh. I was dying to kiss him too.
) Hey if he would have told me that he thought of us as something more-I would have kissed him! But my number one rule is: it ain't true until it comes out of his mouth. That means, no one but the guy can tell you if he likes you or not. Hey some of my guy friends are really flirty that way-and I seriously can't tell if they're kidding or not. But it's best to not assume anything, cause if you assume-you put your heart on the line! EK! Good Luck!!!
[This message has been edited by karina582 (edited 12-26-2000).]
Member # 2226
posted 01-04-2001 02:53 PM
WOW. I wish someone would do that to me! There is not alot of guys who will actaully come out nad admit something like that if it's serious. I am not saying that is couldn't be serious but, WOW! If you have feeling for him to or you think he is hot then bust a move! Get his number. Flirt back. It never hurts. You'r young, have fun, never be afraid.
Member # 2115
posted 01-07-2001 08:08 PM
heyhey..i just wanted to say thanks to everyone that posted a reply. it means a lot
. but here's the thing .. i don't like him as anything more than a friend. which is bad, because i'm finally starting to see why my friends all think that he likes me. he flirts w/ me like nonstop and to be honest, its getting kind of annying. i mean yeah he's cute and everything, but i just don't see "us" together in the future. now what do i do?!? (lol sorry i'm totally clueless when it comes to these kinds of problems)
Member # 1941
posted 01-08-2001 09:43 AM
I have had this problem before. I mean you don't want to hurt his feelings but it is starting to get annoying. What i would do is whenever he flirts with you and says something like he loves you or something just say thanks thats really nice to hear coming from a FRIEND lol i don't know it's worked for me.
Member # 2115
posted 01-10-2001 10:01 PM
thanx for the advice
.. i'm gonna try it. and i hope it works, cause the last thing i would wanna do is end up hurting him! lol .. i just don't get it, why do guys hafta be sooo confusing?! LoL