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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Heather: [QB] I think the word "seduced" is a tricky one, and it's important to look at what it means. Because often, people use it to mean "convinced someone to engage in sex with me when they didn't want to without that convincing." And as it sounds like you know, that's coercion. If, on the other hand, what someone means by seducing someone is that things started off neutral or unknown per someone's interest in sex (or even already in), and the person doing the "seducing" engaged in behaviours to put their desires out there is a way that they hoped would create a person's interest in sex, or amp up an interest already there, that's something else. It does sound like you chose to move forward with sex when someone was saying no and chose to ignore than person's no. And if and when that happens, I think it's sound to feel bad about that, because it's obviously not something good to do to someone. So, sounds to me like the way to move forward here is for you to sort out what happened for yourself, then figure out what you need to do to find some resolution with it. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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