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Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted.	[QUOTE]Originally posted by MIA4007: [QB] My boyfriend of two years was comforting me one day because I was crying about family issues. As I cried, he started to kiss me. It was completely dark in his room, and I was wearing a skirt. Because the room was so dark, I didn't notice that he had taken his pants off. He started to touch me below my skirt and I asked what he was doing, but then I felt a sharp pain and started freaking out, asking what was going on. We had sex for about two minutes, and I cried a lot, so he eventually stopped. We had talked about sex before, but I had said I wasn't ready because of various circumstances. However, after that day, he insisted that it was stupid that I refuse to have sex with him because I wasn't a virgin anymore anyways. I cried almost every time we had sex, and often told him that it was painful, but he usually kept going anyways. Within a month, I found out that he was cheating on me, and he broke up with me, but told all of our mutual friends that we had sex. He also told a lot of people that I am "bad in bed" which I get made fun of for. I sometimes get messages on the internet calling me a whore because I had sex with him, and there are very few people that I know anymore that don't know. I'm very ashamed, but it's too late to hide from anyone what happened. It has been very difficult for me to deal with the fact that I have had sex when I wasn't ready, and it is even harder for me to deal with the judgement that I have faced. I guess one of my main questions is, if he didn't tie me down or physically force me to have sex, does that mean that I consented? [/QB][/QUOTE]

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