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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Redskies: [QB] Extending part of what Molias said, really - If you're experiencing a very great deal of anxiety around this, one option you have is to decide that certain things are just completely off the table for the short-term future. You get to figure out where you want your limits to be - and it might be a good idea to start with those wherever you have any anxiety. That can sometimes give people the space and relaxation to then get comfortable with their own body and build intimacy with other people without worrying about what the "next stage" might be, or what another person might expect of you, or what you might be "supposed" to do next. If you want to date people, it's totally ok to date, or kiss, or cuddle, or anything else, when you have a limit on some other sexual activity. You'll just want to let a companion know your limit at an appropriate time, and they should accept that. Anyone who doesn't isn't a respectful, safe or mature sexual partner for anyone. Plenty of penises bend one way or another (and if you were wondering, it doesn't have any impact on the physical sensations that a partner will get, beyond the usual figuring out how two unique bodies best work together, which applies to everyone anyway). As Molias said, it's immature and not-ok for that girl to tease you about it. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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