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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Heather: [QB] We're going to ask that no one here talks about hating any broad group of people -- children, teenagers, a given gender, a given race, etc. -- okay? It just doesn't make for a safe space for our diverse community, and a space that's safe for everyone is really important to us. No one here needs to convince us of what they want in terms of not reproducing: we're going to take everyone at their word, regardless of their age. We know full well not everyone wants children, and don't think anyone should have to make some kind of compelling argument about why not. This should be a choice for all of us. While it sounds like you might have some information about some methods, what method you think is best for you is also something we're going to support when you tell us it's the method you want. In terms of your boyfriend, can I perhaps ask why you're looking for his approval on this? I know that maybe sounds like a strange question, but I'm assuming you've made your strong feelings about not wanting to parent clear to him already, so he's got to know that if he wants kids, he's not with the right partner. If he does know how you feel, do you feel like he's hoping you change your mind, and thinking if you get a tubal, you can't? Or.....? Too, this is obviously a choice about the rest of your whole life, a life that most likely isn't going to be spent with the person who's your boyfriend at 20. It's possible, sure, but statistically unlikely. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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