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Member # 79128
posted 09-12-2011 06:38 PM
Around August 27th, I was alone with my boyfriend and we were fooling around. He fingered me a little, but I told him to stop because I didn't think we should just yet. I've never done anything that sexual and I'm paranoid I could be pregnant? I Googled it and you wouldn't believe how many sites say you can get pregnant this way. I don't think he had semen or anything on his hand, and if he did, he took a shower before any of this occured so I'm assuming it would have been washed off? I'm supposed to get my period in a few days and I feel cranky and I want to eat everything in the house. I know these are both symptoms of PMS AND pregnancy. I'm really scared...please help.
Member # 42505
posted 09-12-2011 07:04 PM
This does not pose a pregnancy risk. Check out this article:
Member # 79128
posted 09-13-2011 06:56 PM
Could that cause my period to be later than usual? I should be getting mine in a few days, but then it's always been a little irregular...
Member # 20094
posted 09-13-2011 07:00 PM
Unless it results in pregnancy, sex of any kind can't cause a period to be late. But, things like stress about being sexual with someone else can throw a cycle out of whack.
Member # 85959
posted 11-06-2011 11:40 PM
I'm a virgin i haven't had sex only my boyfriend finger me.?
and Iím worried because by anytime soon my period is coming but it doesnít come yet, Iíve already took a pregnancy test twice and it come out neg. and i have this white like milky but not that smelly discharge what should I do? Iím stressed. They say before getting your period you should have that many white discharges but lately Iíve notice i donít have any discharge i'm frrkn out. And my breast is like getting bigger and my tummy is like bloating am i pregnant? or just paranoid about the things in the articles of pregnancy that i already read. so. i'm thinking maybe when he fingered me he had sperm on his hand.. then i ask him. And he answered that there is no sperm.. so I'm stressed and i donít know what to do.. pls. help me..
Member # 20094
posted 11-07-2011 12:08 AM
(Next time you have a question, could you start your own thread? It's easy for posts to get missed this way, and it's much easier to keep things organised when everyone starts a new topic for new questions. Thanks!)
To answer your question, pregnancy isn't a concern with manual sex (fingering) unless your boyfriend's fingers were dripping with semen (the liquid that has sperm in it). You've also taken two pregnancy tests and had negative results both times: it's safe to say you're not pregnant. Periods can be late for all sorts of reasons, so the only thing to do now is wait. As for your discharge, that sounds perfectly normal. Unless you're having a lot more than normal, it's very strong or foul-smelling, or you're having itching, it's nothing to be concerned about. And, not having any discharge is very common before your period arrives, as are sore breasts and bloating, so your period may very well be on its way.