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Member # 46169
posted 03-12-2010 01:22 AM
I'm in a relationship with a great girl. We compliment eachother very much so and we're both so in love. As a guy I feel "responsible" for giving her a good time and making sure she's satisfied. Unfortunately as always our first time wasn't exactly very good but as time went on we got better of coruse. Once I learned how to use my hands, I brought her to a point i've never seen and I loved it. I've never seen her so overwhelmed with pleasure and so satisfied. The problem is that after seeing her like that, Intercourse itself seems nothing. I feel like I let her down everytime we have sex because She's not as satisfied as she could be. I've tried riding up so i get the edge of her Clitoris but even with that I feel as if i'm failing at pleasing her. Is there anything else that would make intercourse more pleasing for her other than the pelvic thrusts and riding up? Am I missing something? Also, I barely feel anything to a certain point during intercourse. I know its the condom and I don't seem to get stimulated as she does. Even though I'm not as stimulated as her, I want to give her the best I can give. Thanks! any advice is appreciated
Member # 34055
posted 03-12-2010 02:37 AM
I'm no sexpert, but I could give some advice. When you are having relations of the sexual kind, rub her Clitoris with your fingers. Talk to her about it, also. See what feels good with her.
I hope that helps, somewhat.
Member # 25425
posted 03-12-2010 03:33 AM
This article may help you out a little:
The Great No-Orgasm-from-Intercourse Conundrum
Member # 45735
posted 03-13-2010 03:46 PM
penis in vagina intercourse is NOT the only form of sex, like you have discovered.
The pleasure point for most women is the clitoris, and thats not very simulated by intercourse . Why dont you try a session of manual sex (fingering/ with your hands) and satisfy her before intercourse. That why she's always pleased, and everyone is happy : D
Member # 3
posted 03-13-2010 04:00 PM
On that note, a lot of people, especially younger people, often don't realize that it's very common for people who have intercourse to add other activities TO intercourse.
For example, it's common for a couple having intercourse to also be stimulating other parts of the body, like the clitoris, at the same time with fingers/hands. Condoms also should not cause anyone to barely feel anything, and that's not a typical experience with condoms. have you tried more than one style or size? As well, what are your expectations of intercourse for yourself? It can be a very general sensation for men sometimes/in some ways, and it may just be that intercourse isn't an activity that does a whole lot for you, either, which is okay. Given some of this thread, I also want to link you to a piece on whole-body sexual anatomy. For sure, the clitoris is one of the most sensitive organs on women's bodies, but it's not a magic button, nor is it accurate to call it "the" pleasure point, as if there were but one (especially since women aren't all the same, and even one woman won't automatically like the same things every day):
With Pleasure: A View of Whole Sexual Anatomy for Every Body