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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. [QUOTE]Originally posted by fille_francaise: [QB] I have the same issues with this, also. My mother is very religious & believes that sex before marriage is a "no-no." Somehow, though, my boyfriend & I manage to do the deed at my house, but it's usually quite rushed & I'm not in complete mindset of making love to him because I'm constantly listening for footsteps, or for someone waking up. It's quite distracting unnerving. But since my boyfriend lives about an hour away from me, & works full time during the week, the only chance we get to see each other are on weekends. So between phone conversations, & internet messages, the [sexual] tension really builds up, so that when I see him, we both can't keep our hands off of each other. At first I thought that the reason I wasn't reaching my fullest potential in my love making was because of me & my self-confidence. But then I realized that it had everything to do with the time & place. We've gotten a hotel twice; once to go to a concert out of town & another time for him to come visit me. & of course, it was much more relaxed. We took our time & just enjoyed each other. It was nice. If we both could have that kind of comfort & security each time we made love, I'm pretty sure we would grow more in our sexual relationship. But right now, it's not very consistant. & sometimes I wonder if we shouldn't have sex at all because it's too restricting. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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