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Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled.	[QUOTE]Originally posted by Nailo: [QB] Hello...long one, bear with me. I'm 16, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 7 months. We love each other deeply, as friends as well as lovers. We have recently had many disscusions about making love...we don't really even consider ourselves to be virgins anymore, seeing as we've done other sexual acts, but no penetration for now. Today we bought our first package of condoms. I read the "checklist" on this site and I have it pretty much all checked off. HOWEVER, I have some questions: 1) I don't have lube. Is it necessary? 2)I'm curious about giving oral sex, though the idea isn't particularly thrilling to me. Basically, because I've heard many women don't enjoy it. My boyfriend is uncomfortable with this because he says he's worried I'll hate it. But I want to make him feel good in this way! Is there any way to calm him down about this? I'm worried that he'll be so preoccupied about eyaculating in my mouth that he won't enjoy the moment. 3)I had never masturbated before my boyfriend first fingered me. Now that I know "how it's done", to say so that way, I've begun to do it more often. But the past couple of times my boyfriend has fingered me, it even hurts! He was touching me where it was uncomfortable, but even when I pointed that out to him, I still don't feel aroused. Is it because he's touching me differently than I masturbate, or because I'm already tense because he hurt me? I also feel that I'm a lot less wet when he reaches down to touch me. Do we need to spend more time kissing before this, or is it because I'm getting used to only being touched in a certain way? Sometimes I feel that he's touching me to strongly, but he says he's barely using the force from the tip of his finger. This didn't happen before! :S I think that if I was simply too sensitive it would have always been like this. Thanks a million for your time [IMG]http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/smile.gif[/IMG] [/QB][/QUOTE]

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