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SabrinaLex
Member # 96725
posted 08-27-2012 12:07 AM
Hi, I'm 13 years old. I'm sorry if I sound stupid or slutty, but I need serious help. Me and my bf (hes also 13) have messed around in his lagoon (salt water). But we didnt have sex. My legs were wrapped around him and we were making out. He had a b**er and I think he did cum. I was wearing my bikini and he was wearing shorts and underwear. We have done this a few times, so i'm not positive about a date. I have been peein alot, been alot hungrier, been having daily discharge, lotsa sweat when I sleep, and back pain. I have also skipped a period. (I shuld have gotten it last week). My dad knows nothing about me goin out wit my bf and I culdnt tell him if I turned out to be pregnant. We are having lots of family issues, including my moms passing 2 years ago, so i dont want to make it worse. I cant get out to get a test in the drugstore and I absolutely CANNOT afford an abortion (which typically wuld be my choice). I have morals, and I hav always been a strong holder against under-aged sex. I dont want to ruin my life because I have alot going for me (advanced school classes, etc). And i dont want to bring a kid into the world in which i cant support. I especailly DO NOT WANT to be a mother at 14!!!! :'( HELP PLEASE!!!
SabrinaLex
Member # 96725
posted 08-27-2012 01:25 AM
Also, my bf lives 30 miles away (give or take) and can only help by being there to talk. He promised he wuldnt run if it turned out to be true, since i obviously didnt do it all myself. ***Another point to add-- We may have rubbed genitals for like 5 seconds but i was mostly positioned just above his stomache (for this purpose). Please help! We are both terrified with nowhere to turn :'(
Karybu
Member # 20094
posted 08-27-2012 03:26 AM
Welcome to Scarleteen. Have you seen this thread yet? http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/007116.html All the information you need should be in there, but if there's anything that's not clear after you have a read through, come on back.
SabrinaLex
Member # 96725
posted 08-27-2012 08:55 AM
I have read that, but my question isn't necessarily if I'm pregnant. I'm pretty sure this poses some sort of risk. Perhaps I've made my questions unclear. My main problem is that I can't get to any place at all (even a drugstore/pharmacy/clinic) to get a pregnancy test, at least without my dad or any other adult in my family knowing. I can't tell anybody around me about this because everyone in my family is against this sorta thing, which, I was too. And, if I were to get a pregbancy test and it came positive, my first choice would be abortion, but I would be a bit over a month at most into my pregnancy, so I wouldnt be able to take the pills. Then, my next choice is surgical, but I cant afford it, let alone get somewhere to get the abortion. Please, I have read almost every one of your articles and I dont know what to do... :'(
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 08-27-2012 09:29 AM
HI SabrinaLex, What makes you think that what you did posed some sort of risk? Based on what I know (which was in the articles you read) what you described doesn't pose a pregnancy risk. If you think differently, let's definitely talk about that, then we can figure out what your options are from there. One of the things in the articles
SabrinaLex
Member # 96725
posted 08-27-2012 09:41 AM
I hope this is just me being a nervous person. Its just that I guess I freak out when theres even a slight chance of something bad happening... Even though odds are probably with me, not against, Im just scared even of that rare occation where it may happen. But what upsets me most is that I can't even reassure myself by getting a test
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 08-27-2012 10:27 AM
From what I see above, the only contact you had with your boyfriend was with both of you wearing at least one layer of clothing. Is this correct?
SabrinaLex
Member # 96725
posted 08-27-2012 03:09 PM
Yes, that's correct.
Heather
Member # 3
posted 08-27-2012 05:18 PM
So, based on that thread, can you understand why a concern about pregnancy isn't sound?
SabrinaLex
Member # 96725
posted 08-28-2012 03:02 PM
Yea i think so
SabrinaLex
Member # 96725
posted 08-28-2012 03:04 PM
One more question though: Theres a supposed home remedy for a pregnancy test. Your suppose to pour some bleach in a glass and mix it with your pee. Then if it fizzes/foams ur preg lol. Is that true?? Or would it be xonsidered unreliable?
Heather
Member # 3
posted 08-28-2012 03:06 PM
Absolutely not. Only tests you can get from clinics, or labeled clearly as FDA-approved pregnancy tests in pharmacies are what can be used to reliably test for pregnancy.
SabrinaLex
Member # 96725
posted 08-28-2012 03:28 PM
Ooo ok. Thanks