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KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-08-2012 09:06 AM
Yup. It's as it says. He went on top of me with only his boxes on when I was completely naked and humped me. Now I know that it's possible but very unlikely, cause on the places I went to (I went to a 'lot') said the same thing and a portion even said it wouldn't even happen, but I want to here from a 'sex'pert if it is a 'probably' not or 'probably'. It is hard for me to tell if it was my own fluids or his own (I saw it on his boxers after) but if it 'was' his, am I probably pregnant or probably not? I'm supposed to get my period this week. A 32 day cycle has been my longest and today is the 30th day in.
Heather
Member # 3
posted 02-08-2012 10:35 AM
Katie, can you go through this link first?http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/006958.html Thanks!
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-08-2012 01:41 PM
No problem, I went through it. But I really must ask, since I've been curious about it actually, what is really meant when the word 'direct' is used in 'direct genital contact or 'ejaculated 'direct'ly unto a vulva/vagina? Is someone wearing boxers or underwear considered direct in those phrases?????
September
Member # 25425
posted 02-08-2012 01:47 PM
If one or both people are wearing at least one layer of clothing, we are not talking about direct genital contact. Direct means that nothing (not clothes, no barrier methods of protection such as a condom) are in between.
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-08-2012 02:07 PM
Thank you very much
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-10-2012 12:10 AM
I'm sorry to intrude again, I just need to hear it I guess. So does what I explained pose no pregnancy risk? I guess what's bothering me is the fact that 32 days has been the longest I've ever waited ror a period and today is the 31st so I'm somewhat freaking out that it might not show tomorrow.
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-10-2012 01:46 PM
I really would just like hearing there is no risk but if his boxers were the consistency of lace, then it really shouldn't be a problem, is what I've read. However, how can you tell that? Is it usually just by looking cause I've never seen any male boxers sold in that fashion.
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 02-10-2012 05:12 PM
Any layer of fabric between you means that there was no direct contact between your genitals and his, or between your genitals and his ejaculate.
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-10-2012 05:32 PM
So no risk then and I'm just stressing and that's why I'm running late ?????? Thanks again for your time.
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 02-10-2012 05:35 PM
NO risk. If it would set your mind at ease, you could take a home pregnancy test. Accurate results won't show up untiltwo or more weeks after the risk occurred. If it
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-10-2012 06:00 PM
Ok. Thank you so much
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-10-2012 11:51 PM
So let me see if I got this straight. It's 100% no risk of pregnancy unless that ONE layer of clothing is noticeably thin like there are visible holes like fishnets, lace, etc. because normally, fabric stops sperm from entering cause it soaks up the ejaculate, making them immovable. Also, the Ph will destroy most if the sperm anyway cause of the lack of ejaculation that normally balances the acidity. Am I right????? I'm just trying to gain knowledge from this.
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-11-2012 11:50 PM
Just out of curiosity, do yeast infections affect a cycle at all or do vagunal medications? Today I sm considered late since I've never been past 32 days before and since one of us had at least one layer of clothing (his boxers) then it can't be pregnancy. It's either the stress (which I'm known for, lol. Anxiety) or the meds. Which I doubt cause the paper thingy said it wouldn't delay or mess up a period in any way.
September
Member # 25425
posted 02-12-2012 07:33 AM
Do you chart your peridos at all? It sounds like you don't, so there's no way of even knowing whether you are late. For the future, it may help you feel mroe secure if you started charting your periods, so you can predict your cycles more easily and know when you are late. While the medication for a yeast infection won't affect your period, the stress of illness can have an affect. So if your period is indeed late, that may be why. But, again, it sounds like you may not even be able to tell whether it is late at all.
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-12-2012 09:46 AM
I do. They are very sketchy. They have been: 30, 30, 28, 31, 32, 29, 27, and my last one in January was 28. It is my 34th day as of right now, which is why I'm concerned and I never in my life had direct contact. There has always been at least one layer (cotton. I don't wear lace or anything of that fashion) like you guys have been saying whether it was just me or him, or the both of us. So it is 2 things for me. Stress or my really sketchy pattern and that this might be normal for me to wait a little longer. Also, just so I make it easier, I know that we don't need direct genital contact to have anything drip down due to anal, just rubbing his bare member on my anus, or ejaculating on my tummy or something so I can literally say the only time his ejaculate in any fashion was near my genitals was when he was on top of me grinding with his cotton boxers on. So yea. I'm like.....ok?????? Lol.
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-12-2012 10:02 AM
And obviously, cause it's in my topic, when we were grinding, I wasn't wearing anything but he was wearing cotton boxers. He knows I'm freaked out cause we've talked about this but he just keeps telling me, like you kind people here, that he finds it very unlikely to happen and that I am NOT pregnant. When I told him I wasn't on my period yet (cause I tell him usually or when he asks) he just said that he thought that was weird so it's just me that's wondering. He says that he doesn't understand how that could happen cause obviously, he was wearing something. But back to the cycle thing, what is considered late? Is it a day after it's supposed to usually happen? Like I said, my cycles have always been very sketchy, like I've shown earlier. So sorry for the lengthy response. Just trying to vent and make myself clearer for you guys.
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-12-2012 10:06 AM
Other than being stressed, or being irregular, the only other thing I can think of is the stress through my yeast infection about 2 weeks ago.
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 02-12-2012 11:28 AM
If your cycles are irregular, a day after you expect your period is not late at all. I know it's freaking you out, but you just gotta hang on tight. If you get premenstrual symptoms, are you experiencing any of them?
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-12-2012 12:19 PM
I usually cramp really bad instantly before I start but I get full on symptoms like breaking out badly, bloating, and sore nipples. I'm experiencing all of that so.......the cramps aren't really felt right now and sometimes I do for a few days before.
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 02-12-2012 12:38 PM
sounds like it will come soon. just taking it's sweet time. my sympathies. happens to me too.
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-12-2012 03:20 PM
Thank you for your support. I really appreciate it
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-13-2012 09:21 PM
Just thought I'd let you guys know that I had a live chat with Planned Parenthood earlier today and the lady I spoke with told me it was not possible for semen to go through any layer of clothing at all. However, I've noticed that on 'posts' on the same site, other staff said other wise so I was wondering if it were possible to hire staff that give the wrong information.
KatWA
Member # 42505
posted 02-14-2012 01:13 AM
I don't know how they run things there, you would have to ask them. What the woman said on the phone is the same thing we have been telling you here, though, so if I were you I would maybe try to stop thinking about it. Try to take your mind off of it and do other things rather than stressing out needlessly, you know?
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-14-2012 01:54 AM
Being told I can't be pregnant this way, what do I do next if I don't get one this month? So far I'm 36 days in waiting (32 my longest). Believe me. I'm trying my hardest to get over something that isn't going to happen so thank you for your never ending patience with me and your time and effort.
KatieLynn963
Member # 69153
posted 02-15-2012 01:22 PM
Nevermind. I got it today. Thank you for your time and patience
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 02-15-2012 04:47 PM
Glad to hear it.