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Karina :]
Member # 49179
posted 12-11-2010 09:04 PM
I was on top of him, facing him. I was wearing my underwear, he wasn't. His penis was behind my butt, but he would pull it back & let it go to where it touched my vagina (wearing my underwear). Could this pose a risk?! Also, another question. Me & my boyfriend had sex about 4 weeks ago. He was only in me for about 10 seconds because he apparently "popped my cherry" so i pushed him back cause it hurt a lot! Today we had sex again. He got inside me about half of his penis, maybe just the head & about an inch. He was in me for about 3 minutes. We wore protection on both times! Now, i have been cramping for the past 3 days. I have a feeling my period is coming, hopefully. Now, my question is... If I have my period, say tomorrow, can I still become pregnant from what happened today? Or after u get you're period you're safe?
OWL Dan
Member # 49077
posted 12-11-2010 09:22 PM
With any of the scenarios, the chances of pregnancy are very slim. Not once did you say he ejaculated, sperm can not make it through clothing and you used “protection” (meaning condoms?) and withdrew. Pregnancy requires a direct contact between the ejaculate and the vulva at the least and/or the obvious inside the vagina. Here is an article that covers different pregnancy risk, Pregnancy Scared? , please read it and let us know if you have any more questions.
Karina :]
Member # 49179
posted 12-14-2010 05:42 PM
Thank u. I wrote it clearer here: So about 1 month ago, me & my boyfriend tried to have sex... He popped my cherry... He was only inside me for about 10 seconds. Saturday night I got on top of him right... I was wearing my underwear & he wasn't... He would pull his penis back behind my butt & would make his penis slap me in the vaj. Is this risky? I had a pantiliner on. Sunday we tried sex again. His penis didn't go all the way in, i think just the head and about 1 inch. It was inside me for about 1 minute or 2. So this past week & this week I have been cramping. I hope this isn't because I am pregnant. I have been getting weird brown discharge on my pantiliner. Just very very light discharge. Should I consider this my period coming? So say I have my period in a few days, could I get pregnant from what I did Sunday? After u have your period, u can't be pregnant? HELP! Could I become pregnant from any of the above scenarios? We ALWAYS wear protection, I don't want a kid. He never "came"!
OWL Dan
Member # 49077
posted 12-14-2010 06:04 PM
Karina, Relax! I was able to understand the scenarios from your first post and I stand by what I have already told you. If you are still concerned, you can always take a test. The tests are the most accurate 10-14 days after the "risk" or when your period is late. The discharge you are experiencing may be your period. Since you have been this worried about the possibility of being pregnant, have you thought about using more than one form of BC? Here is an article to look over and consider, The Buddy System: Effectiveness Rates for Backing Up Your Birth Control With a Second Method .
Karina :]
Member # 49179
posted 12-14-2010 07:10 PM
Thanks, that second response u wrote made me feel better. Thank u. Since it's been a month since this incident, I think I'm going to buy a pregnancy test tomorrow after my college exam & take the test in the morning of Thursday.
OWL Dan
Member # 49077
posted 12-14-2010 08:19 PM
Karina, You are welcome! For the sake of your exam, PLEASE Trust and Relax! Take Care ,