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Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted.	[QUOTE]Originally posted by Hoyden: [QB] Hello, I'm an asian female in my mid 20s. My bf of 5 yrs and I are both monogamous and were virgins untill recently. He is in his late twenties. We have been physically intimate for the past 3 years and have gone upto the level of oral sex. Both of us have a very active libido. About 8 week back, we had our first ever penetrative encounter. It was unplanned, and was anal. He didnt use any lube, used a condom and didnt ask for my permission. I was so numb that i dont recall if it hurt or whether he went slow or fast. I felt like i was raped and was very suicidal following the incident. But he helped me get to terms with it and i got better. 2 days back we mutually decided to try anal sex again. He is usually very considerate but this time too he didnt use any lube and it hurt like hell. I was crying while he was doing it. Though he was gentle and kept kissing me, he did not stop. It hurts to sit, walk or sometimes even stand. I didnt bleed. But my anal muscles feel swollen. Should I go see a doctor? Also, he left immediately after we finished with the sex. And hasn't asked explicitly if i'm fine or not since then. I feel used. Losing one's virginity is a huge taboo in asia and I did it again only because i was ready for it, felt he was the right person and i trusted him. It disturbs me that my first time ever was anal. I feel like a pervert bcoz who in their right mind has anal sex before vaginal?? And the way he did it makes me feel grossly abused. And i dont know how to face my family. Please help me. I dont have anyone else to go to. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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