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Member # 33485
posted 09-11-2007 08:27 PM
Okay so, twice this month I was alone with my boyfriend and he ejaculated. Both those times he went into the bathroom and cleaned up immediately following, then he fingered meÖ and now my period is late =/ I am confused! And possibly pregnant?
Time number one I was wearing my pants the whole time, I did not see him watch his hands but we ate immediately after he cleaned up. Iím guessing about half an hour passed between the time he cleaned up and the time he fingered me. The next time, about two weeks later we were in his room and I was in my underwear and a skirt. I watched him wash his hands this time with soap before he fingered me right after. I am a week and a half late for my period and giving off a large amount of clear discharge, it doesnít smell so bad to me but according to my mother my underwear smells horrible. I havenít noticed any other real symptoms of anything, sometimes I feel a little itchy and uncomfortable down there but thatís it, and Iíve also had to pee a lot. Oh, and Iíve also been really moody lately =/ I also took a pregnancy test (without my parents knowing Ė they would not be pleased) it came out negative but it was a store brand test (not so accurate?) taken in the middle of the dayÖ so itís not the most reliable? My mom says itís a yeast infection Ė but that doesnít delay your period. Am I most likely pregnant? What should I do?!
Member # 22471
posted 09-11-2007 10:30 PM
There is absolutely no possible way you could be pregnant from the situations you're describing - zero. For there to be a realistic pregnancy risk, you need to have had direct, unprotected genital contact. And for risks through fingering? His fingers would literally have to have been soaked with ejaculate. You didn't describe anything even close to that, so no need to worry AT ALL!
If you think you may have an infection, you should head into your gynecologist or doctor to have it diagnosed and treat it if need be. And also? Periods can just be irregular, it happens, even to the most regular-of-all-regular women. Check out our article, it may give you a little more information and help ease your nerves: M.I.A or, Dude, Where's My Period? Also, here's another article that may help you to check out What's the Risk? Easy Pregnancy Risk Assessments
Member # 33485
posted 09-11-2007 10:39 PM
Thank you so much, I looked at the chart and thought I had assesed my risk properly - I thought I fell into the no to low risk category and I had just gotten really unlucky... but what you say makes sense. I tend to freak out really easily! =/
I think I just needed an 'expert' response to ease my mind - my boyfriend's, friend's, and my own logic wasn't enough =P I'm going to the doctor asap!