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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Miz Scarlet: [QB] Honey, there's not much to say after the fact like this: this was the choice you both made and it's done now. Really, before you get sexually active with anyone, these are conversations you need to have with them, in terms of what the two of you will do should you become pregnant, ESPECIALLY if you're not using birth control. Mind you, he chose not to use it just like you did, so putting it all on yourself isn't right either. To boot, what you do inevitably is up to you, not up to him: it's YOUR body, not his body. None of the options for pregnancy, for the record, are the stuff of nightmare. None of them. Not abortion, not adoption, not childbirth and parenting. They're all doable and there are ways to make them all okay. So, get the test. Take it. And talk to the guy. If he wasn't willing to deal with a pregnancy, that's his problem for not using a bleedin' condom and yours, sweets. If you are pregnant, research your options and get a sense for what feels like it might be best for you and think it through. But first, you get the test and you take it. Waiting doesn't make pregnancies go away. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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