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Member # 95678
posted 02-03-2013 09:07 PM
So after a honeymoon phase of a good year and a half, my menstrual cup and I no longer get along. It used to feel super comfy to wear one, but now, the cup feels - not painful, but weirdly uncomfortable, like there isn't room in my vagina to wear one. It sometimes causes sudden urges to urinate, and by day 4 of bleeding, I can't wear it at all because it starts to get pushed back out. I've also found that inserting fingers or dildoes into my vagina also feels different - almost like something is pushing against the walls of my **** and causing resistance and discomfort if I try to insert anything.
Even without a diva cup, I'm having problems with pelvic discomfort (again, not really pain, but something just feels strange), urinary urgency and some incontinence, and I'm constipated all the time. This has been going on for almost a year, but since I've been moving from place to place a lot and haven't had access to decent medical care, I'm not sure what might be going on. I don't have health insurance, but I did find a women's (sic) health clinic that should be affordable (I live in San Francisco now, and I'm staying put). Anyway, my question is basically, is this is a common ish and is there something that's likely causing it? And are there any tips for being a good advocate for myself when I do see someone? I feel like most of the times I go to a clinic, I leave feeling patronized or violated and with no useful information. Thanks!
Member # 41699
posted 02-03-2013 09:23 PM
If you're having general problems with pelvic discomfort and urinary issues, I'd really suggest going into that women's health clinic ASAP. They'll be able to run tests and examine you, which we unfortunately can't do here
And for now, I'd probably avoid using the cup until you find out what's up, if I were you. Even just for your own comfort, at least. In terms of being a good advocate for yourself, what some people find to be helpful is writing down everything you know you need from this, and any questions you have, and you can either read/give the list to the doc, or at least have it in your pocket to help remind you to be assertive about your needs. Does that sound like it could help you? [ 02-03-2013, 09:24 PM: Message edited by: Onionpie ]
Member # 95678
posted 02-12-2013 09:49 PM
So I got a pelvic, and the NP told me that everything seems fine except that I'm in pain, so I have at least a few weeks of waiting to do before I can get seen by a specialist.
Meanwhile, in addition to what I was feeling before, orgasms are now seriously painful. What I mean is that the muscle contractions that go with orgasm (I think it's the PC muscle?), which normally feel awesome, feel like a charliehorse instead. It doesn't matter if I only stick to external stimulation - it's the orgasm itself that is painful. I can't find any reliable information about this online - painful intercourse, yes, painful orgasm, no.
Member # 3
posted 02-13-2013 10:51 AM
Oftentimes the information on pain with intercourse you'll see on medical sites includes -- even though it doesn't say that explicitly -- pain with orgasm.
But since you're having pain with your cup, and with orgasm, obviously something is up. But until we/you have some information back from that exam, I don't know how we could begin to figure out what, exactly, is going on, I'm afraid.