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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Heather: [QB] My best advice is not to have sex, or try and have sex, with anyone for that reasons. For one, having sex with someone won't keep them from leaving. But more importantly, sex where there are two people really needs to be ABOUT both people for that sex to be emotionally healthy for everyone involved. It's not something you give to someone, or trade for something else -- like trading sex for commitment -- when it's really the good stuff, and is really healthy. Sex not 'working" in this situation makes sense. Really, our bodies are pretty smart, and don't want to have sex we don't really want. It's when we have sexual desire that our body parts 'work" best when it comes to sex. If we're not excited and fairly relaxed, the vaginal canal isn't going to loosen and lubricate, and sex will tend to hurt, or feel like nothing, instead of feeling good. Do you think your boyfriend cares about if you want to have sex, on your own terms, not just for him, or not? [/QB][/QUOTE]

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