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Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted.	[QUOTE]Originally posted by TheGlow228: [QB] I'm a 16 year old girl with an 18 year old boyfriend and we've been together for well over 2 years. We've discussed sex, and at this point, I know it may not be a such a good idea. Firstly I know it's going to be hard to be alone, I'd have to ask to go on the pill which won't go over well, and most importantly I wonder if having sex with him now or ever is a good decision. He's a great guy, handsome and has direction for his life. My family and friends agree. We've had our ups and downs, I've been critical on him and I've made him feel dumb even though he isn't. We almost broke up because of my overbearing behavior and his sometimes passive nature. He has a young spirit and acts goofy around me and sometimes it makes me feel like he's lame and that I shouldn't bother having sex with him. But I really am curious about sex and I really do love him. It's clear that me and my bf need to work on our relationship a little bit more so I can prove that I'm being more loving and accepting of who he is instead of trying to change him, but the idea of actually having sex (not just being horny, but going through with having sex) won't go away. We both know it's better to wait until all our ducks are in a row, so here's my question: Should the fact that my bf is willing to act more silly and feminine around me in a way that sometimes turns me off stop me from having sex with him? When we are physical in other ways it's good and I forget about other behaviors, but will I feel awkward when he goes back to being a goofball? [/QB][/QUOTE]

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