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Brokenhearted
Member # 96418
posted 09-02-2012 04:20 PM
So idk what happened to my last post. I am writting this because I am sorry for crossing boundries and making asumptions that are not true. I have been told many times about the limitations and I know that. I have a hard time with my disability. I want you to know that I am working extra hard. I am sorry for the hurtfull things I have said. I know I was wrong. I am going to use other resources besides this one. I will still use this but I wont depend on it as my sole support. I am going to counseling on the 4th. I am really excited and cant wait. I am sorry for what I have done. I just need a sensitive aproch if thats ok and if not thats fine as well. I hope my post and appology is accepted and that people are able to understand where I am coming from. Once again I am sorry and I will really try my best to work with what I have been told. Thanks for everything.
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 09-02-2012 04:41 PM
HI There, I'm really happy to hear that you'll be going to counselling on the fourth. By all means, please do tell us how it went if you would like to. I'm not sure if you've done this already, but I'm thinking it might be helpful for you to write down a list of your resources, so that when things get bad or overwhelming you'll be able to look at that list, slow your thoughts down, and think about how best to get yourself the help you need at that moment. Also, you've referred to your disability many times. You certainly don't have to do this, but since you have referred to it and it's impact on what you do at any given time, it would be helpful for us to know how that works for you. Again, it's up to you whether you want to share anything about your disability, but since it seems to loom large in your life, perhaps you could enlighten us a little?
Brokenhearted
Member # 96418
posted 09-02-2012 04:50 PM
with noonans syndrome I have heart desease. I have server scoliosis, deyled brain develpoment. I have LD which is learning disorder. With my social skills i do not know boundries like when to and when not to e mail someone or text and want to hang with them. Also when someone does nto reply to me in a while i feel like they are mad at me. If someone is having a bad day I automaticly think its me who made them have a bad day when in reality its not. I know the fact thar they arent mad at me i cant help but feel like they are. I also look and act younger then I am. I am 19 and act and look like a 14 year old. Does any of that make sense? On how and why my posts and replies are the way they are. I will def. let you know how my apt goes on the 4th. :) Any other questions please feel free to ask at any time.
Brokenhearted
Member # 96418
posted 09-02-2012 04:53 PM
with noonans syndrome I have heart desease. I have server scoliosis, deyled brain develpoment. I have LD which is learning disorder. With my social skills i do not know boundries like when to and when not to e mail someone or text and want to hang with them. Also when someone does nto reply to me in a while i feel like they are mad at me. If someone is having a bad day I automaticly think its me who made them have a bad day when in reality its not. I know the fact thar they arent mad at me i cant help but feel like they are. I also look and act younger then I am. I am 19 and act and look like a 14 year old. Does any of that make sense? On how and why my posts and replies are the way they are. I will def. let you know how my apt goes on the 4th. :) Any other questions please feel free to ask at any time.
Brokenhearted
Member # 96418
posted 09-02-2012 04:56 PM
sorry didnt mean to post two of the same response my computer was being dumb
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 09-02-2012 05:20 PM
HI There, Have you been able to get any support with your learning disabilities? Are you working with the disability services at your school? I can understand that these challenges you have make it pretty difficult for you to handle social interactions. It's also something you can work on with a good professional.
Brokenhearted
Member # 96418
posted 09-02-2012 05:46 PM
no I have not and i am working on getting help at the school. Ya its VERY hard for me to have social interactions. I feel bad that I am so awkward but its not my fault. It makes it hard to talk to people. So I am sorry :(
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 09-04-2012 06:31 PM
Hi There, I know yu were really looking forward to finally being able to get some counselling and wanted to check in on how it went today. So, how did it go?
Brokenhearted
Member # 96418
posted 09-05-2012 03:39 PM
It went really good. I really like her and feel like I can open up to her and be honest. She was very nice and caring. I am looking forward to be meeting with her. :)