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Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted.	[QUOTE]Originally posted by Moonshine0691: [QB] Hi, me again. I just got a text from my boyfriend 'bout half an hour ago and he said, very randomly I might add, "I really want to have sex with you. Just figured that I tell you. We've been together over a year. I'm ready when you are, and when we have the things we need." He then called me afterwards because I didn't reply right away (was outside) and I told him that I still wanted to wait regardless of how long we've been together and he said that he knows and that's why he put it in the text. He said it very smugly though on the phone then he just said that he had to leave for work so I hung up. He then texted me again saying that there's no need for my attitude and that I shouldn't have hung up on him. I told him how he was saying everything and he disagreed with that of course. He then texted me saying, "Even if I was (upset), I would think my girlfriend would ask if I was ok, like I always ask her when she has a different tone. Not just hang up after I say that I have to go." (I know the word for word texts aren't important but I just need to get everything out of my system...kinda shaking while typing this). If you knew how he was he's basically the type of person who can do no wrong in his eyes and if you call him out on it, he'll deny it. I said that was him pretty much spitting in my face (which he denies) and we're not talking at this point. I'm going to wait to see what happens tonight but the main reason why I'm here is because I don't want fights like this to break out when I tell him that I'm not ready for sex. I'm paranoid enough as it is when we have clothes on (dry humping) and he knows that but he doesn't seem to get it. He'll just randomly say that he's ready to have sex with me and says when I'm ready it'll happen but he seems to be very pushy with this subject as of late. I'm still a little paranoid about my last topic that I posted on here and now I can't even talk to him about that because I can tell it annoys him. Right now, I just need someone to talk to who isn't going to turn around and say I'm the bad person when I say I'm not ready for sex. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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