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lovepink888
Member # 95931
posted 06-01-2012 08:54 PM
If me and my boyfriend were making out and then i had my pants half way off with my butt showing and him behind me rubbing up and down with both his pants and boxers on, and had a small spot of Precum on his jeans could i get pregnant from this? I get really freaked out about stuff and i know its probably a stupid question but I'm not on the pill and am freaking out. someone plz help!!
September
Member # 25425
posted 06-02-2012 02:11 AM
Hi lovepink, have you seen this post yet?http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/006958.html That should help you out, and if you have any further questions you can come on back and ask.
lovepink888
Member # 95931
posted 06-02-2012 08:29 AM
Hey Joey, yes I did read that I just need some reassurance or advice or something. I just need to know if I should be worried or if Im fine. I have definitely learned my lesson, i just need someone else's take on the situation for my own sanity. Please help.. thanks.
Onionpie
Member # 41699
posted 06-02-2012 08:57 AM
Hi, lovepink888. Did you also read all of the articles linked to in that forum post? Can I ask then if, based on the info in those articles, you think you had a viable pregnancy risk or not? I ask that because we're really not going to give you anything different from what's in those articles. I also want to make sure you understood all the information in the articles. And if you are unclear about any of the information, feel free to ask and we can clarify for you! So, based on the information we've provided in the articles, do you feel like you've had a pregnancy risk that you should worry about? [ 06-02-2012, 08:59 AM: Message edited by: Onionpie ]
lovepink888
Member # 95931
posted 06-02-2012 09:16 AM
I have an intense anxiety disorder and I have am very in my own head so I have convinced myself that I do have a risk and its driving me crazy. I need some advice or help. I guess can sperm get thru my boyfriends boxers and pants to get me pregnant?
lovepink888
Member # 95931
posted 06-02-2012 09:19 AM
Im guessing it was pre cum because it was just a drop but i do need some advice
Onionpie
Member # 41699
posted 06-02-2012 09:25 AM
As is stated in the article, neither ejaculate nor pre-ejaculate can soak through multiple layers of clothing and make someone pregnant. Are you getting any counselling or other treatment for your anxiety disorder?
lovepink888
Member # 95931
posted 06-02-2012 09:28 AM
I haven't been getting help because I'm not sure how to. I went and talked to a doctor about it and they weren't very helpful in putting me in the right direction they kind of insulted me about the whole thing. And thanks for helping me. So just to clarify I'm worry free?
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 06-02-2012 09:37 AM
I'm sorry that the doctor was insulting. Is going to another doctor a possibility for you? I think what you might find helpful is to make a list, based on the article you read, of what does pose a pregnancy risk, then evaluate what you did against that? So, if you can read through the article and write down why your sexual encounter wasn't a pregnancy risk, that might be good. You can do it here and we'll let you know if you're on target. How does that sound?
Onionpie
Member # 41699
posted 06-02-2012 09:39 AM
Oops, Robin got to it first I will also say this though: I would definitely suggest starting to get counselling for your anxiety as it is obviously greatly affecting your peace of mind. We can help you find resources to help you with your anxiety if you would like. You could use the "contact us" link below to email us your postal code and ask for help in finding a good counsellor or other resource in your area. I would also suggest that you step away from doing anything sexual while you are not getting help for your anxiety, as it is obviously making it worse, okay? When something is triggering your anxiety this badly but you're not getting help for it, all it will do is make you feel worse, and we don't want that. So until you find a counsellor to help you with your anxiety, I definitely suggest stepping back from participating in sexual activities. [ 06-02-2012, 09:40 AM: Message edited by: Onionpie ]
lovepink888
Member # 95931
posted 06-02-2012 09:52 AM
Sounds good! So If I'm correct I can't be pregnant because 1. I didn't have direct Genital to genital contact. 2. The pre cum didn't go directly into my vagina. 3. It cannot pass thru two layers of clothes (boxers and jeans) to get me pregnant. The only concern i see is that my butt was exposed in this situation. Am I on the right track?
Onionpie
Member # 41699
posted 06-02-2012 09:53 AM
Yep, lovepink888 that's all correct! But since your list there all applies to make the pregnancy risk non-viable, having your butt exposed doesn't pose a risk. Does that make sense? [ 06-02-2012, 09:54 AM: Message edited by: Onionpie ]
lovepink888
Member # 95931
posted 06-02-2012 09:56 AM
So I shouldn't have to worry about it? My period should be in about 8 days and I will definitely get some help. So the risk is basically no existent?
Onionpie
Member # 41699
posted 06-02-2012 10:23 AM
Looking at that list you wrote out, it should be pretty clear by now that you didn't have enough of a risk to worry. So from now on, if you do continue to participate in sexual activities, I would suggest that every time you have a pregnancy scare, you go over what you know and write out a list to evaluate whether you've had a risk or not. Because we aren't going to give you any more information than what's on those pages -- which make quite clear when someone does or doesn't have a pregnancy risk -- you should be able to work out from there whether you've had a risk. That way you shouldn't need to rely on us reassuring you, as you now have all the information necessary to know for yourself whether you've had a risk
lovepink888
Member # 95931
posted 06-02-2012 10:29 AM
Thank you so much for all of your help. I think my sexual days will be over now because of my instability. Thanks again for everything.
Onionpie
Member # 41699
posted 06-02-2012 11:18 AM
No problem, glad to be of service And don't forget, we certainly can help you look for some counselling for handling your anxiety