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shadi DeRohan
Member # 95015
posted 03-02-2012 03:30 AM
hi, thnx 4 telling me to start a nwe topic so tat u can fill me in my problems. I dint expect a reply and wen i saw one my heart juz warmed thinking that someone is there to hear me out.... Thank u so much! Now getting to the topic... i have been married for almost 2 yrs now and have baby of 6 months. Ever since the begging of marriage am i'm having this pain in the vagina and as a result we are unable to have intercourse.. Even noe it continues... I feel hell... I cant satisfy neither my hubby nor myself... And he is so damn patient and supportive which adds to my dismay.... I really need a way outta tis.... I'm totally miserable... Pls help
September
Member # 25425
posted 03-02-2012 04:30 AM
Of course! You are very welcome. Now, with unexplained physical pain, the first thing I am going to ask is whether you have ever discussed this with a doctor. If you have not done so, why don't you do that, first? And then we can discuss whatever comes of that. If you have already seen a doctor and they were unable to find a physical cause for your pain, we can take it from here.
shadi DeRohan
Member # 95015
posted 03-02-2012 12:45 PM
thnx joey... my baby ws taken out via c-section because my uterus was not expanding.. Though i was in labour room for 12 hours i was only 2 finger.... Is that a sign tat i hav a problem?? I have not consulted a doc before for tis..... I'm juz ....well.... Shy! And scared! but i will do it, no matter what, coz i dont want 2 live like this.... By the way, should i consult a gynaec or andropologist?
September
Member # 25425
posted 03-02-2012 12:50 PM
Not being doctors, we can't really make any guesses as to whether there is a connection between your difficult labor, and the pain you experience with intercourse. Only a doctor can make that assessment. But when you do go in to see a doctor, you'll want to make sure to mention everything that could be important, including your problems during labor. And, yes: you'll want to see a gynecologist.
Heather
Member # 3
posted 03-02-2012 12:53 PM
I'd also be sure to be clear that an issue with your uterus likely has nothing to do with your vagina. They're very different things, and the uterus isn't going to be a factor with vaginal pain with intercourse. It might also help you to know that pain with intercourse is generally an issue GYNs will have had others come to them about before, so it's very unlikely you'll be the first person going to your GYN about this with.