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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted. [QUOTE]Originally posted by olivejuicevia: [QB] I'm 16 and the idea of my parents having sex has always made me so scared, uncomfortable, sick, etc. I thought I saw them having sex one time which turned out my mind just kind of distorted the image, but I couldn't look at either of them for a week and would start crying at very random times because of it. I eventually talked to my mom and we straightened out that it never happened. Every second that went by got better, and now a year later it feels like it never really happened, and I'm okay even if it did. The same type of thing goes for when I once found condoms in their room. But this time, it's different. I was in my mom's bathroom like I am every morning to brush my teeth and there is a gray thing on the sink. I've never seen a dildo in real life before, I kind of thought that's what it was, though I would've bet hundreds of dollars before today that my mom has never masturbated, considering 1. she's not like that, and 2. she's made it clear that it's really gross for people to do. Feeling that there was no way in the world it was really a dildo, I see a part on the top that looks like a bottle cap, so I decide it is just an odd shaped container, and to prove it I spin it. Well, it starts vibrating and as you can imagine, I run out of the room mortified and go into my room scared as heck. A little while later I was in my mom's room with her and she goes into the bathroom. I follow her and see the vibrator there and having one last bit of hope in me, idiotically ask her what it is. She gasps as if she has done something terribly horrible and disgusting and after a second says "its..a massager...for my back, back when we used to work in restaurants we got this because our backs would hurt very badly". If that wasn't the worst lie I have ever heard! I said okay, and try to say "oh its like one of those little hand massagers, cool" I was okay then for a few seconds but quickly ran out of her room and knew I needed to find someone with the same issue on the internet, and just get some support to know it's okay. How can I ever look my mom in the face again? Why does she masturbate when she is happily married? When/where did she get it? Why do I feel so abused and lied to? How can I ever get over this? [/QB][/QUOTE]

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