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Serenaa
Member # 44887
posted 05-01-2010 05:27 AM
Okaay Soo, My boyfriend and I went out last night, so we wanted to have sex, he then put his penis in me, for atleast a second, after that second he pulled it out cause it hurt alot for me. so i guess that wasnt sex? for some reason i keep thinking im pregnant. I guess im not because it was only for a second? and he didnt cum in me, would i feel it if he did cum in me though? but later on i went to the toilet and when i pee, it would burn, but today it was okay, and then i see like an opening in my vagina? its pink, what is that? & my back hurts ever since i got up out of bed today, my body just feels weird. , also whenever i'd give my boyfriend a blowjob at the top part of his penis( the mushroom shaped part ) , there would be like a DOT. a tiny dot of something and i dont know what it is, is it pre cum? its kinda wet, if its cum i wouldve seen it , but i didnt. and then when he was going to put his dick in me , i think i saw something just squirt, a tiny dot .. im pretty sure its not cum, cause he said he didnt cum in me, ... im really scared, i really dont want to get pregnant . Please help! [ 05-01-2010, 11:31 AM: Message edited by: Serenaa ]
Karybu
Member # 20094
posted 05-01-2010 12:35 PM
As far as STI risks and pregnancy risks go, having contact between your boyfriend's penis and your vagina does present those risks (whether you choose to define that as "sex" or not). Since your boyfriend did not ejaculate, your risk of pregnancy is low, but if you want to reduce it even more, emergency contraception is still an option. (What you saw on your boyfriend's penis was likely pre-cum, or pre-ejaculate.) You'll also want to get a full STI screening in about a month if you're not current with those. What you're noticing in terms of your body "feeling weird" could be any number of things; we can't diagnose you over the internet so if you're concerned your best bet is to talk to your doctor. All that said, I'm a little concerned - you talked just a couple of weeks ago about not feeling ready for sex yet. Was this something you really wanted, or do you need some help finding a way to express that you're not ready yet to your boyfriend?
Serenaa
Member # 44887
posted 05-02-2010 08:00 AM
Well, to be honest, ive always wanted to have sex, its just that sometimes i feel like i shouldnt just because through my posts i didnt like how my vagina looked, and thought it would disgust him, but then he fingered me while i havent waxed there or shaved and he said its my body so he cant judge me. . but then, i felt ready few days ago when his penis made contact with my vagina. It's just that the country im in now, you would have to be really careful in where to have sex, because basically there isnt really a good place here to have sex but thanks for your post Karybu! really needed the help, but im supposed to be getting my period on the 8th of may or before it which i feel so moody, my stomachs bloated, so im guessing these are the signs for getting my period then?
Karybu
Member # 20094
posted 05-02-2010 11:37 AM
Those sound like PMS symptoms, yes. And I'm glad to hear that you're feeling okay about all of this (although if you feel that it isn't safe where you are to be sexually active, I would urge you to reconsider).
Serenaa
Member # 44887
posted 05-02-2010 11:54 AM
alright Thank you so much Karybu !
Karybu
Member # 20094
posted 05-02-2010 11:58 AM
You're welcome.