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Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted.	[QUOTE]Originally posted by Heather: [QB] You know, there's nothing wrong with not feeling ready because you need some more time to feel comfortable being that intimate and that vulnerable with your partner. So, if you really don't feel there yet -- at a point where it really isn't a big deal how long it lasts, for instance -- then by all means, wait. Ideally, to reduce everyone's STI risks most, we don't advise unprotected oral sex for partners who have not been practicing safer sex (that's testing, latex barrier use and monogamy) for at least six months. So, if you do it smart and do it safe, whether or not you ejaculate in her mouth is a non-issue, because it's going into a condom. If you're not going to be safe, then that's just something you can ask her how she feels about, and if she has any preferences. There's no way to make an erection last a given amount of time (and quite frankly, it's relatively safe to say that since oral sex for either partner can be enjoyable, but often a workout for a mouth, a partner is unlikely to complain when a partner doesn't last long before orgasm). It's normal for most men once any sort of driect genital stimulus starts to happen to only last a few minutes, and for younger men, it's normal to last even less. Certainly, if you and she want to make it last, you can take little breaks from oral sex in a given session, and if you feel yourself getting close, you can ask her to stop doing what she's doing that's brining you there: but you likely won't want to, and there is certainly no need to when both of you are enjoying yourselves. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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