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2cool4u
Member # 29764
posted 07-07-2006 08:20 PM
Is it normal for women to feel bruised or something with a curved penis? I talked to somone who said that when they had sex it didn't hurt but felt like it was bruising her.. Is this common?
Miz Scarlet
Member # 3
posted 07-07-2006 09:17 PM
Understand that the vaginal canal is also curved: it curves slighty upward. But more importantly, it's a flexible muscle which is pretty adpative to the shape of what is inside it. Sure, it's possible to bruise the cervix or parts of the vagina: but that's not likely to occur because of a given penis shape. Instead, it's likely to occur from forced sex or just plain forceful intercourse or manual sex: if a guy is having intercourse with a woman like he's a battering ram, she might experience some bruising (and in plenty of cases, not a whole lot of pleasure, either). P.S. You agreed, when you registered, not to post multiple copies of the same topic or question. You posted this three places: don't do that. Just be pateint, eh? [ 07-07-2006, 09:18 PM: Message edited by: Miz Scarlet ]
dailicious
Member # 22471
posted 07-07-2006 09:19 PM
Penises curve naturally, and the vagina does as well- there's no way for ANY penis to bruise a woman during intercourse unless he is being too rough or violent in his actions. It's likely that the feeling came because the man was either bumping her cervix, which can be painful, or because the couple wasn't using enough lubrication and the friction caused irritation. Though it's also sort of silly for someone to say that they didn't feel pain but felt like they were being bruised, as feeling you're being bruised seems as though it would indeed be painful. (Mindmeld!) [ 07-07-2006, 09:20 PM: Message edited by: dailicious ]
2cool4u
Member # 29764
posted 07-08-2006 10:55 AM
How deep is the cervix into the woman? His penis was curved at like a 30 degree angle towards the left so when it went in, she said it felt like it was into her side a little bit.. Not necessarily being rough but almost a soft spot that was constantly hit during sex..
Miz Scarlet
Member # 3
posted 07-08-2006 02:57 PM
It depends on both the woman (not all vaginas are alike) and how aroused she is. In a woman who isn't very aroused, it can be but a couple inches in, sometimes even less.
2cool4u
Member # 29764
posted 07-08-2006 09:58 PM
How often would you say is it to have sex? Like for a married couple how many times a week is normal?
dailicious
Member # 22471
posted 07-08-2006 10:31 PM
There is no "normal" - it all depends on what the specific couple likes (married or not). Some couples may not have a great deal of interest in being sexually active, so it may not be a high priority or common occurance between them. Some couples could engage in sexual activity every week, some every day, some twice a day. And sometimes some couples may have sex often in a short amount of time and later not be sexually active at all for a long stretch of time. There's no set average of any sort. It's all based on what you're comfortable with and have reasonable time for.
2cool4u
Member # 29764
posted 07-08-2006 10:37 PM
Do men that have curved penis' make women feel better then men with strait ones?
karybu
Member # 20094
posted 07-08-2006 10:51 PM
It depends on the woman, on the position, on a whole bunch of things. There's no way to make generalizations about this sort of thing, because everyone enjoys something different - some women don't like intercourse at all (and some aren't interested in men, period).
2cool4u
Member # 29764
posted 07-08-2006 10:56 PM
I have never seen a curved penis.. Is there anywhere you can find pics of this?
karybu
Member # 20094
posted 07-08-2006 11:11 PM
We can't link to or provide names of any sites with photos of that nature, due to the PG-13 nature of Scarleteen.
2cool4u
Member # 29764
posted 07-08-2006 11:12 PM
Ok
2cool4u
Member # 29764
posted 07-08-2006 11:20 PM
Is there anything a man can do to have more semen? Like I mean like more cum a thicker orgasm instead of a little drizzle.. Is there anything that helps a thicker load?
karybu
Member # 20094
posted 07-09-2006 12:00 AM
No, nothing will change the amount of semen a man produces. It varies from person to person and from day to day, but there's nothing a man can do intentionally to drastically change the amount.
2cool4u
Member # 29764
posted 07-09-2006 10:55 AM
Is anal sex as painful for a woman as sex for the first time? I mean a virgin having sex is very painful and so is anal but which one do you think is more painful?
karybu
Member # 20094
posted 07-09-2006 11:13 AM
Understand, though, that first-time intercourse is NOT painful for many women. The same is the case with anal sex - some women may find it uncomfortable, others may find it slightly painful, and still others find it enjoyable. There's just no way to make generalizations about this kind of thing because everyone's body is different, everyone reacts to stimuli in a different way, and everyone enjoys different things.
2cool4u
Member # 29764
posted 07-11-2006 02:35 PM
What makes sex painful for women the first time? I know some women are not affected but most are.. What causes the pain? Is there anything you can do so that there is no pain?
JamsessionVT
Member # 17924
posted 07-11-2006 03:58 PM
Lack of lubrication, anxiety, lack of arousal...some of the more common ones. The word "most" is tricky because yeah, many women may experience some discomfort at first, but I don't think *most* women experience a lot of pain. What can you do? Make sure you first time is with someone you trust and are comfortable with; these two traits make things that much easier. Use as much extra lubrication as you need/want, make sure you are fully aroused before attempting intercourse, and take you time. We can't stress this enough, just because so many partners jump into sex without taking the time to set it up. Think of it as dessert, not the main course.