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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. [QUOTE]Originally posted by CeeCee127: [QB] Turtle_Lady – feel free to jump in! Heather - It's funny you suggest that. I fantasize about BDSM scenarios quite a lot. After some prodding I admitted it to my bf, and he's all for trying it, but I'm not sure how well those fantasies would translate to real life. I don't think there's a whole lot of consistency in the type of guy I think about, though, and when I try to describe the sort of sex I picture... I don't know. I just can't quite communicate what I want (I was raised in a kind of prudish family), or when he follows my directions, it just doesn't do anything. I usually blame it on talking ruining the mood, but who knows. Pre-boyfriend, I had a fair few "one night stands," some with guy friends and some with strangers, all consisting of make out sessions and/or oral. After a while I realized it wasn't really making me happy, because I always felt under pressure to "perform" or please them, usually at my own expense. Even when they reciprocated, I didn't feel much, and eventually I just started declining the offers. I thought finding someone I had an emotional connection with would somehow fix that, but so far, no luck. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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