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Member # 78220
posted 09-04-2011 06:23 PM
Hello I was curious if this is normal, when my boyfriend is hard his penis points outwards, it lifted and points outwards but doesn't point up to the cieling, I thought it was to stand straight up, is there anything wrong with him?
Also, does a small penis mean I won't get a lot of sexual pleasure because his penis when its inside doesn't go in deep, is it supposed to go in deep?
Member # 78235
posted 09-05-2011 02:29 AM
...I don't know anything about your first question other than it sounds pretty normal to me..
As to the second one, the main factor in pleasure is from width, not length. Which is why penis-length obsession is absolutely absurd. The wider the penis the better, length doesn't matter too terribly much. As far as I know/have heard at least, but I'm no expert, and I don't plan to be.
Member # 64549
posted 09-05-2011 07:49 AM
That sounds totally normal to me; penises can point in all sorts of different directions and have all sorts of different curvatures. I actually think what you're describing (pointing straight out) is far more typical than a penis that pointed straight at the ceiling.
And as for the penis size, most of the nerves in the vagina are located in the first couple of inches. So really a penis doesn't need to be very long at all to provide plenty of sexual stimulation. Beyond those first couple inches, having a longer penis doesn't really provide that much additional stimulation.
Member # 60502
posted 09-05-2011 02:37 PM
plus, sexual pleasure doesn't have to be limited to intercourse. In fact, that sounds like pretty boring sex to me. There's lots of things for fingers and tongues to do!
As far as I know, sex isn't "supposed" to be anything. Except it's deffinitely supposed to feel good, and you have to be comfortable and want it to happen!
Member # 64549
posted 09-06-2011 09:45 AM
gazelle123, I agree with the point I think you're trying to make, but, speaking as someone who prefers intercourse (and whose partner prefers intercourse) to oral and manual activity, I'd like your point a lot better without the value statement that intercourse is "boring."
Member # 3
posted 09-06-2011 12:01 PM
And pleasure as a whole when it comes to bodies is much bigger than this sexual activity or that one. As well, preferences about what feels good or what people like, whether we're talking about activities or body parts, are diverse. There are no universals with these things, really.
This article might help: With Pleasure: A View of Whole Sexual Anatomy for Every Body As might this one:
Shown Actual Size: A Penis Shape & Size Lowdown
Member # 60502
posted 09-06-2011 06:07 PM
point taken, reading back it does sound like I was making a value judgement.
I apologize for that! [ 09-06-2011, 06:10 PM: Message edited by: gazelle123 ]