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Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled.	[QUOTE]Originally posted by Obi: [QB] I know someone else will likely come behind who's better at finding/inserting helpful links, but I thought I'd offer a few words. I would not say there's anything wrong with you at all. I don't want to generalize, but I know in many cases most people who are able to reach orgasm through masturbation weren't able to have an orgasm the first time they masturbated or even the first few times. It's not surprising, or unusual, that many people (most?) aren't able to have an orgasm right away when they have a partner, whether their first sexual partner or new ones. If nothing else, it can take a while and communication for partners to figure out what their partner enjoys. On top of that, it seems like you might be experiencing a lot of worry about this. Although you might be relaxing to a point, it's possible that by concentrating on orgasm as the goal you might start getting anxious that you won't now (or ever) have an orgasm with a partner which can make it harder to reach that place in itself. Plus, you might be missing out on what you do enjoy that isn't centered all on having an orgasm. For now you might want to just decide that you're not going to worry one way or another whether you have an orgasm, but instead just focus on trying to find between you and your partner what each of you enjoy. It's important to note that you can have sex without orgasm and have it be very enjoyable, just as it's possible to have an orgasm that's just so-so. And a last note, it's not unusual for women to not be able to orgasm through intercourse alone, which might be helpful to keep in mind in the future. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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