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justaguy
Member # 5048
posted 08-08-2001 05:01 PM
I am now 17 and this has been happening since age 14 if im correct but, i become aroused really easy and sometimes its really simple things that will arouse me like if im with my girlfriend and im holding her hand or if i hug her whatever the cause may be i can be come aroused almost instantly. this also has happen during school year walking up and down the halls and i see a really beautifull girl walking pretty hair nice smile etc... almost 5secs later im aroused. to me i dont know if this is normal or not. i also tend to ejaculate. please reply with your comments and suggestions =)
DarlingBri
Member # 5036
posted 08-08-2001 05:32 PM
It's totally normal. And the interesting news is that as you get older, the frequency will likely decrease but the reasons will not change - attractive person, holding hands, it's a Tuesday - whatever.My 40 year old partner claims that he can still pop an errection and look down at it and wonder what the heck it's thinking, because he's not thinking about sex at all.
It's a very, very standard male phase. All your male teachers went through it, your dad went through it, your friends are very likely going through it - it's just part of the maturing thing. Try not to worry about it, knowing how common it is. It will calm down over time!
------------------ Hope this helps, --Bri
Etch
Member # 182
posted 08-08-2001 05:34 PM
I am no expert on this (seeing that i am a girl) but i know that becoming aroused is extremely normal, especially when you are close to someone you are attracted to. When you say you tend to ejaculate, do you mean you do when you just get aroused? If so, that I couldnt help you with. Any help from a guy here please?
If this hasnt caused any serious social problems then i probably wouldnt worry too much about it. The majority of people know by the time they are 17 that guys get errections. When (and if) i notice a guy who is aroused i tend to ignore it because i know its normal and can sometimes happen for no reason at all.
justaguy
Member # 5048
posted 08-08-2001 05:44 PM
yea, i do ejaculate when i get aroused and happens about few min after im aroused but i dont go all at once its like a little here and there.[This message has been edited by justaguy (edited 08-08-2001).]
lemming
Member # 33
posted 08-08-2001 07:33 PM
justaguy, that's perfectly normal. It's almost undoubtably not ejaculate but pre-ejaculate, or "pre-cum" - something that usually happens to guys upon arousal. It's a fluid released by your glands which can buffer the acidity of any urine in your urethra, bringing the pH to a comfy level for sperm. Pre-cum usually does bring down a few sperm with it, and can cause pregnancy.Need more info? Try here.
Male Sexual Anatomy @ Skin Deep[url]------------------~lemming, Scarleteen Advocate
want to know the inner lemming? read her diary at [URL=http://innerlemming.diaryland.com/]http://innerlemming.diaryland.com/
."Boo to the business world/You know a girl who's tax-free on her back and making/Plenty cash/But you are working for the joy of giving" --Belle and Sebastian, "Lazy Line-Painter Jane"
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lemming
Member # 33
posted 08-08-2001 07:43 PM
This page, specifically, guy. ;] http://www.scarleteen.com/body/male_anatomy_6.html Sorry 'bout that.
------------------~lemming, Scarleteen Advocate
want to know the inner lemming? read her diary at http://innerlemming.diaryland.com/ ."Boo to the business world/You know a girl who's tax-free on her back and making/Plenty cash/But you are working for the joy of giving" --Belle and Sebastian, "Lazy Line-Painter Jane"
SolitaryTear
posted 08-08-2001 10:02 PM
That is completely normal. I'm not a guy, but I was talking to my fiance and he said that has happened to him too. He says he'll be getting food or something and all of a sudden get a full erection. It's normal. But see, my fiance is 22 also, and he's a virgin. So, if you're a virgin then maybe that could be why you become so easily erect. And yeah, the cum that is extracted is pre-cum, which guys usually get when they are erect.------------------ ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
~.*^*.aMaNDa.*^*.~An Evanescent Beauty That Will Never Flee
LilBlueSmurf
Member # 1207
posted 08-08-2001 10:48 PM
Just as a little sidenote ... it's not only (or even especially) virgins that are easily aroused. Especially in their teen years. --------------------Hollie West *~Scarleteen Advocate~*
I have this nagging fear that everyone is out to make me paranoid. ~ Anonymous
justaguy
Member # 5048
posted 08-08-2001 11:19 PM
well im not a virgin as of last year was my first time and havent had sex or another girlfriend after that because i have just been couped up inside my house playing some stupid game that should be called evercrack so addicting but im through with it now and i sold my account on ebay for 500$ and its time for me to get in the sunlight have some fun party and hang out again. from the replies of my post im glad to hear that im not the only person that gets erect just outa the blue for no reason
Etch
Member # 182
posted 08-09-2001 03:51 AM
perhaps you and my brother should start an everquest support group. it brought him and all his friends down.... you guys are all junkies.anyway, my guy friend called me a couple hours ago with this same problem. he was getting all freaked out cuz every time he talks to his girlfriend he gets aroused. I told him "Duh, you like your girlfriend, she turns you on whether your brain is thinking about it or not"
Getting errections when they arent exactly wanted must really suck. I mean, its not really anything to worry about because most people dont notice (unless they have a habit of looking at peoples crotches) but i guess its like getting errect nipples. Totally embarrasing if someone points it out. But then you gotta tell yourself "hey, nipples get errect" Just substitute penis for nipples are there ya go!
justaguy
Member # 5048
posted 08-09-2001 05:53 PM
hahah, thats pretty funny...well i think im pretty much over the everquest aka evercrack problem thank god! oh well only played it for 6months and already made my money back by selling my account on ebay for 500$ that should be coming in the mail sometime tomorrow