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Member # 4410
posted 07-25-2001 02:52 PM
As I was in the book store me and my friend looked at some mags and i picked up the cosmo one and started reading this artical about Weird Orgasims well as i read on the girls were telling there stories about how they had one...here is one...a girl was in her b/f's car with a loud base and it was vibrating her and she had an orgasm..I was just wondering how this can happen when i cant even have one when im having sex and it takes me forever to have one orally??? it just seemed weird to me!!
Member # 961
posted 07-25-2001 03:06 PM
Different people react to different things. It's possible for people who have no feeling below their necks to have orgasms from contact with their neck, earlobes, whatever's sensitive to them, but, especially when they haven't been that way all their lives, it can take some learning. Similarily, many young girls don't orgasm for quite some time after they become sexually active, but that doesn't mean they never will. Be patient, and be willing to explore your options.
Member # 182
posted 07-25-2001 03:58 PM
It is not uncommon for women to not be able to orgasm during intercourse. I cant.
I have had a friend who has orgasmed once while riding a bike, and a friend who orgasms when her breasts are massaged long enough. They are just more sensative the many other women are.
Orgasms are also something that comes from your mind, not how good the stimulation is, whether it be from a partner or from the vibrations of stereo bass. You need to be in the right frame of mind to have an orgasm.
Of course we all know that orgasms are not the most important thing when it comes to sex
Member # 4159
posted 07-25-2001 06:22 PM
on TLC's "The History of Sex," they mentioned that some people can even have orgasms just from kissing because of the amount of nerves that surround the lips.
I always find the way that I can achieve an orgasm to be very strange, but hey, it works
Member # 1312
posted 07-25-2001 09:14 PM
Sounds pretty normal to me. I think bass is really arousing. Hehe, I'll just be listening to, say.... Keoki, and I'll get so turned on! I just find that the bass vibrating through my body gives my nerves a big, nice jolt. Heh, techno rules!
Member # 2748
posted 07-25-2001 10:23 PM
I find bass a turn-on, too. I don't know why. But if I'm just listening to a song with bass and
feel the bass, it's a turn on. Methinks.
Member # 2971
posted 07-25-2001 11:25 PM
Wow, i know that wouldn't make me have an orgasm, but i've heard of lots of people who can have one really easily by hardly any stimulation.
It's different for eveyone though.
...Everybody knows what a store-bought sweater looks like. But man, when you see a home-knitter on the street, it's obvoius, you know?" -Hawksley Workman
Member # 2769
posted 07-25-2001 11:34 PM
Whenever I go over a hill in my car, my stomach kind of leaps, and it must hit a sex nerve
! I get sexually aroused... Not to the point of orgasm, but it's pretty close. I usually can't orgasm very easily, but I have a few friends who can orgasm like THAT. It all depends on the person. Some people need direct clitoral stimulation, and during sexual intercourse women may not get that. We're all different... Just find out what works for you .
Don't mess with Texas
Member # 3133
posted 07-26-2001 12:26 AM
Everyone is different when it comes to what makes them orgasm. Blackbird mentioned that kissing itself can simply make someone orgasm...totally true.
About the bass, i don't know if that would make me orgasm, but then again i have never tried it so who knows
*A person that asks a question is a fool for 5 minutes, a person who doesn't is a fool forever*
Member # 568
posted 07-26-2001 12:38 AM
hehe. i've neverh eard of heavy bass triggering an orgasm, but i have heard that heavy bass can loosen the bowels and cause diarrhea. ask anyone who's been in the front row for a meat beat manifesto gig.
"And who are you who are so wise in the ways of science?" from Monty Python and the Holy Grail
Member # 3023
posted 07-26-2001 02:07 PM
Regarding going up a hill and being aroused: I always had the same thing, as a little kid, when I was on a roller coaster or an amusement park ride, and this would be way before puberty (6-12, let's say, being generous in either direction). I was always like, "WOAH. I wonder if that's what sex feels like! That is so cool!"
Since then, I've always known that my pubic bone is very sensitive since I basically discovered that just sitting there on various amusement park rides... I think it's probably all the blood rushing down there when you are at a certain angle. I can get it a LITTLE bit on a steep hill, too. Nothing like an amusement park ride, though.
Now this makes me want to go to some dinky park with my SO... *evil grin*
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Member # 4159
posted 07-26-2001 02:58 PM
Gumdrop Girl..when did you see Meat Beat Manifesto? And why didn't you take me????
"1970 called. Al Pacino wants his car back."
Member # 4410
posted 07-29-2001 04:32 PM
Thanks guys for all replying!!