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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Heather: [QB] How about if you try and set aside what your orientation is right now, and just try and figure out what your feelings are for this individual? You could have feelings for her no matter what your orientation was, so your orientation is only so relevant here. Very, very few people in the world are 100% heterosexual or homosexual. When we use those terms, they mean that someone is only or MOSTLY attracted to people of the same or opposite sex. It can mean exclusively, but in real life, for most people, it rarely does. As well, our feelings about just one person are unlikely to give us solid info on our feelings for a gender as a much, much larger group. On top of all of that, it's not like someone's gender is the only thing that determines how we feel about them, you know? So, let's just focus on how you feel about her. I think I hear you saying that you don't have sexual or romantic feelings for her, but you wish you did, because you perceive she may have those feelings about you. Do I have that right? [/QB][/QUOTE]

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