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Member # 34087
posted 05-29-2007 01:52 AM
I'm 16. and a girl.
I'm literally, when it comes to porn into everything. I like guys. But people always act weird when i tell them what kind. I like very skinny guys. The more girly or androgynous the better. I like them with long hair, and makeup. I've never actually met or had a crush on a guy like this. I'e had three serious crushes in my life. the first guy was ery short, chubby, with sandy hair. he hated me. the second was mexican, dark hair and eyes, very bad boy and once again hated and made fun of me. the third was a friend, and he had very light skin, dark hair and eyes, and was rather Emo.But I was more into their personalties. But I've seen pictures of guys I think are pretty. ( yes pretty is the term I use) and every time, no matter who I've pointed them out too the person has gone "is that a girl?" I usually can tell it's a guy.a couple times I've thought someone was hott, thought it was a guy and it turned out to be a girl. actually,I do find some girls hott, and have gotten turned on watching them in porn. But I would probably never date a girl, and I consider myself straight. even though I checkout girls, watch them in porn, fantasize about them, ect. I've never had a boyfriend. I figure I should have been born as a gay male. I get the feeling I probably was one in a past life. I love gay porn anything with two males. I think guys are beautiful creatures.I've never had a boyfriend. anyone who's asked me out (hasn't been a lot) has been creepy. And I can't find anyone who isn't gay, or who looks wise actually exists. I'm known in my circle of friends as the girl who likes gay guys. and I kinda do wish I could snag a gay guy. I sort of fantasize that a very stereotypical gay guy would forget he's gay for awhile and date me. I've also had a couple gay/bi male friends since middle school,who have said I act a lot of the time like a gay guy. One friend even said He thinks i was meant to be one, and I kinda agree.Maybe it's just wishful thinking on their part, but yeah. I'm also much,much, more comfortable with guys, and since preschool, the people i've gotten along with most, and the situations I'm comfortable in almost always involve guys. I love guys. Girls are ok, but I'm not gonna go shouting that from the hill tops.(Even though i find nothing wrong with being lesbian/bi/gay/whatever you are.) actually gay seems more normal to me then straight. For some reason, it feels like if anything is going to be wrong it's heterosexuality. but yeah... so comments, ideas? am I just weird or what? and the ultimate question...where do I find a guy like that whose straight?!!! I'm not gonna get a fake I.D crash a Gay bar and drug/ brainwash an older gay guy. ....weirdness attack, sorry.
Member # 34159
posted 06-03-2007 03:52 PM
Hmmm...speaking as a bi girl, I'd would say you're bi, sweetie. If you like girls and girly guys, so what? I like most guys and chicks that look like valkyries.
Personal taste hasn't got a huge deal to do with orientation, to my thoughts. I went through a phase where I thought I was meant to be a guy becuase I fancied girls. But I still like guys alot. If you fantisize about girls, why don't you want to go out with them? You say that you consider yourself straight. Is this a personal thing, or are you just scared how people might react if you say you were otherwise? When I came out, my parents were in denial for about a year, then they came round to it. Mostly because my brother admitted to being gay, but that's another story. It's okay to be scared and confused about it. I know I was. Hope my little ramble's been of any help. -AG
Member # 25425
posted 06-03-2007 04:27 PM
You know, you really aren't that wierd, Brownie. I promise.
All throughout high school, all of the guys I was interested in would invariably turn out to be bisexual or gay. In fact, I was that girl whose boyfriend dumped her with the words "I'm sorry, I've been dating you to pretend I am straight, but I'm actually gay". And then years later I did the same thing to a guy, and most of the girls I then went on to be interested in/date were fairly butch. Also, the partner that I've now been with for nearly three years looks pretty manly. I actually made a list in 9th grade about the physical features of the perfect guy (as if such a thing exists...), and my partner has none of those features. What I'm trying to say is that our attractions and sexualities are fluid. They change over time and are really hard to pin down. It sounds, from your post, like you might be bisexual. That's okay. There is no need to rush to label yourself as anything. And you'll also meet someone you want to be with, and that person may or may not be the type you're interested in right now. I know it seems complicated, but if you just go with it and don't try to analyze it too much, you'll be okay.
Member # 36263
posted 12-27-2007 07:01 PM
hello! i'm a new member, aged 17, female (although a little andro), i have a steady boyfriend, and we're both bisexual. well, i say bisexual. tbh, i don't like putting myself in that catergory, i'm more... fluid about my sexuality.
I'm attracted to androgynous boys and girls, always painfully skinny, such as Keira Knightley and Patrick Wolf. when it comes to sex, yeah Brownie, i know what you mean, i feel like i should have been born male. i like being female for the most part, but physically, i'd like to be more male. not that i want a dick, just to be flat-chested, and (if i'm honest) be able to pass as a male - if a girly-looking male - in public without binding underwear. Have any of you heard of Katie Sketch? google her, she's who i want to look like. i bind my breasts (T-Kingdom - fabulous!) but as yet i haven't told anyone that. everyone just thinks i'm naturally flat-chested. basically i live in a small welsh town, only 15 or so miles from Llandewi Brefi, the scene of the "only gay in the village" sketch from Little Britain, if anyone's seen that. to be honest, i've forgotten what my point was... oh i remember! yeah i empathise, i find it highly exciting that J's been with boys before me (he's terribly thin and "pretty" as you so excellently put it ). It is totally difficult to define yourself as either "gay" or "straight" when there's a certain amount of crossover in the people you're attracted to.
Member # 37720
posted 03-28-2008 03:44 PM
i would have to say you are bi most people forget that you don't have to like girls and guys equaly 50/50 straight down the line most people who are bi like one over the other its a fluid thing. however its totally normal to like guys who are girly and guy on guy action alot of people do just look at the huge amount of fanfiction there is out there.... and as for finding guys who are girlish metro sexualy guys are almost everywhere i know in vancouver there are tons! and i think metro sexualy is really what you are looking for. as for finding some i suggest looking around art communaties also try coffee shops with open mike or spoken word nights. hope i helped good luck!
Member # 38714
posted 08-04-2008 06:38 AM
Don't worry doll, I agree with you most certainly that the bishounen boys, the pretty, skinny, pale, boys are much cute.
It doesn't really matter much, I don't think. Whatever floats your boat, so to speak, is a special, unique part of who you are has a person, and that's pretty cool. And, if there was something wrong with women like gay guys, all of the yaoi/shounen ai manga in Japan would not sell as well as it does. To the bit about finding yourself a pretty boy... hmm, well, if he comes he comes. And if you find a guy who's not what you expect, but he still makes your heart flutter, that's ok too. As everyone has so brilliantly stated before, sexuality is fluid to some degree. By the way, on a slightly related note: I've found millions of pictures of very pretty boys all over places... I have a folder dedicated to it. ^.^