How do you know your labia is big or that you vagina is saggy and ugly? Because unless you've seen 100's of other women's vaginas, you don't know what the "norm" is.
And I use that word sparingly. As long as a vagina does it's job, the way nature has intended it, as a birth canal, passage for intercourse, and a way of means for menstrual flow to exit the body, than it is normal, and certainly not ugly.
Nothing is wrong w/ you. And quite frankly, there is no such thing as an "ugly" vagina. I think instead of comparing yourself to your friends to see what is normal, you need to focus more on accepting your pink parts for what they are. Vaginas, like people, come in many different sizes and shapes, so it's pretty silly to assume we all have the same kind. The remedy to this situation? Embrace the spice of life, my friend, because you must learn to love what you have, as w/ many things in life.
(Just an FYI, try to post in a category that makes sense. This could have easily gone under Body and Soul )
[This message has been edited by JamsessionVT (edited 07-10-2005).]