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sportsgurly789
Member # 96040
posted 06-14-2012 09:30 PM
So the other day my boyfriend and I were hooking up in the shower unclothed, and we did everything but sex. However, we were also intoxicated at the time. I had given him a handjob, and he also touched his penis throughout, but I am almost positive he did not ejaculate, and was still hard after we were done hooking when we stopped because we were being loud. However, after he had masturbated for a little, he fingered me again. Is there any risk that there could have been precum on his fingers, or even if he did have cum on his fingers, what are the chances that I could have gotten pregnant from that?
Karybu
Member # 20094
posted 06-14-2012 09:47 PM
Welcome to Scarleteen, sportsgurly789. Have a read through this thread first: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/006958.html and then we can go from there.
sportsgurly789
Member # 96040
posted 06-14-2012 09:53 PM
Yes, I read over that when i first logged in. Also I had some light bleeding the day after, but I think this was due to either a torn hymen since I have never been fingered that intensely, or a possible scratch. A couple days later I had white discharge, but now it is just clear. Would a pregnancy be possible?
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 06-14-2012 10:35 PM
For a pregnancy to occur, there needs to be either: 1) Direct contact between a bare penis and bare vulva, which could include rubbing, vaginal intercourse, or anal intercourse. 2) Direct contact between freshly ejaculated semen and the vulva, such as some ejaculating on or very near the vulva. The sexual contact you describe doesn't fit into either of these scenarios. The bleeding you experienced sounds like it was likely a scratch or a small tear from a lot of friction.
sportsgurly789
Member # 96040
posted 06-15-2012 07:16 PM
Okay good I feel much better now. So there is pretty much no risk? it's my first time going this far, I think that is why I am nervous.
Robin Lee
Member # 90293
posted 06-15-2012 08:34 PM
No, the situation you describe really doesn't pose a risk. Does that make sense based on what you read in the article? How do you feel about engaging in this sexual activity? Sometimes worry or nerves over pregnancy risk can be our mind telling us we're not quite good with the kind of sexual activity we've engaged in. What do you think?
sportsgurly789
Member # 96040
posted 06-15-2012 09:37 PM
Yes it makes sense, I am probably just overreacting but I just want to be cautious since I can't remember if he actually came or not, and considering he could've fingered me after. I don't think I was ready for it though, and I do feel guilty about it. Especially since we were intoxicated as well and I can never seen to control myself.
sportsgurly789
Member # 96040
posted 06-17-2012 01:08 PM
Sorry to ask another question, but although you said that it does not pose a risk, I am still slightly concerned since it's hard to remember everything that happened that night. It is hard to rely on my period considering it has been irregular since I got it when i was 11, but I went on birth control to regulate it around december, and got off of it around march. Since then i have had 2 periods, both 35 days apart, and if i'm still on that cycle I should have gotten it this past monday, but I didn't. I took plan b 4 days after the incident, just to make sure but should I take a pregnancy test? I am worried.
Rei
Member # 49582
posted 06-17-2012 01:35 PM
A negative test can be great for our peace of mind, so as you still feel worried, I'd take a test for reassurance.