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Member # 28429
posted 05-04-2006 04:06 PM
I've had sex...ok evidently thus my question: Could I be pregnant? Last month I had sex without a condom. I didn't know, I thought he had put one on. He withdrew though and came outside. The next morning we fooled around. The last time we had sex we used a condom, but had fooled around before he put it on. So,,, I have been kinda scared. I had just gotten off my period like the day before we had unprotected sex. And it's the beginning of the next month,,, I'm just getting a little worried cause usually i get my period at the end and into the next month. And it's just a little late.
Another concern I had: I smoke, and I didn't even think about the effects it might have, cause I didnt think there were any chances of me being pregnant. But now I'm kinda scared. If I am pregnant, are there possiblilities of my baby being hurt right now?
Member # 139
posted 05-04-2006 05:51 PM
You can now take a pregnancy test, because yes, ejaculation or not, you had a pregnancy risk.
Pregnant or not, smoking is bad for you and quitting now would benefit your health greatly in the long run. Yes, if you are pregant, the fetus could be harmed by smoking.
Member # 27418
posted 05-04-2006 08:19 PM
Um, also--woohoo, what's your partner doing putting it in without protection, anyhow? And especially without informing you? It doesn't sound like the issue of protection is very clear between the two of you; I think it would be a good idea to sit down and make it VERY clear that NO sex without a condom is allowed, period. You shouldn't have to be checking on him like a baby every time to make sure that he's being responsible--he should be respectful enough of your body to be taking initiative. (Yeah, this is coming from me, who just recently had to seriously kick my OWN partner into shape on this issue.) You've both had an STI risk, so in addition to a pregnancy test, it wouldn't be a bad idea to get a screening, either. But seriously, get that safer sex thing taken care of: hardcore.
Member # 28961
posted 05-24-2006 06:38 PM
straight up, Condom must even if you dont have extra lube, ive heard some of the stupidest excuse..."i didnt have any extra lube and i didnt want the condom to break" ok a condom even used improperly is somewhat better then no condom at all, fix this problem, and if he is trying to sneek around using one he probally isnt ready for sex.
Member # 20094
posted 05-24-2006 08:27 PM
Conker, this thread is quite old - it's quite unlikely any advice is needed at this point. Also, simply telling a user to make sure a condom is used, even if improperly, isn't terribly helpful. If you have something worthwhile to add to a current thread, that's fine, but digging up old posts to tell people to use condoms isn't terribly productive.
Member # 20094
posted 05-24-2006 08:29 PM
[ 05-24-2006, 08:30 PM: Message edited by: karybu ]