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Posted by Jennacat (Member # 10209) on :
Yeah..i had sex with my boyfriend friday..but i didn't orgasm. I really wanted to! He gets all sad when i don't orgasm cause he feels as if he's not doing anything right. When he is..he's really good to me..and you know i don't want to lie to him and tell him that i did orgasm. He just wants me to be pleased. I mean one time he was fingering me and we were running out of time and he wanted me to give him an hj..but i told him we didn't have enough time and he's just like ..well as long as i made you happy i'm happy... See what i mean..he's the sweetest and i want to orgasm with him inside of me! I don't know what to do..i'm afraid i'm one of those girls that can't orgasm from sexual intercourse. I don't want to be! What do i do?
Posted by logic_grrl (Member # 8067) on :
Check out the wise words of Miz Scarlet on this very topic at .

(The board search function. It's our friend ).

i'm afraid i'm one of those girls that can't orgasm from sexual intercourse. I don't want to be!

Well, "those girls" are about 70% of the female population, according to most surveys. So if you find you can't reach orgasm through sexual intercourse alone, there's nothing wrong with you, and it's really not a "fate worse than death" .


Posted by -Jill (Member # 5375) on :
I just want to compliment you on being honest with your partner. If the two of you can straightforwardly discuss this you can likely find a suitable solution.

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