It seems like whenever I experience problems in my relationship I can solve them myself until now. My problem deals with my boyfriend's father. He is a single parent currently enaged to this controlling woman. She tells him what to do, how to do it, and when to do it. This has become a problem when she started telling him to become more involve in his son's life. Basically this has cut me out completely. Since he is only 16, he has school so I only get to see him on the weekends but now his father has told him that the weekends are reserved for family time. Soon summer will be here and he usually spends it with me in my apartment. However, this summer his father told him that he would be not able to spend the summer with me. I feel that pretty soon our relationship will be over and that year and a half that I spent with my boyfriend will be a complete waste if I don't find some way to fix it soon.
Posted by sweety0000 (Member # 23582) on :
You should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel then you, your boyfriend, and his father should make a compromise.
Posted by Kay_Leigh (Member # 14656) on :
Just curious as to how old you are, as knowing an age can change my answer immensely.
[This message has been edited by Kay_Leigh (edited 05-27-2005).]
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