i just lost my job today. because somebody falsely accused me of stealing when i didnt do anything. l loved my job, and people would not listen to what i had to say. my mom is constantly throwing it in my face, which doesnt make it any better. i just feel like nobody ever wants to listen to me. i have to keep a job to support myself, because my parents dont help me with thethings i need for school. my friends say that something better will come, but when???
Posts: 50 | From: stnmtn ga usa | Registered: Sep 2001
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You're 18, sometimes you must be patient. Just continue with your education and try to get another job. And hey, if you want, you can go to to nalicity.com and click on forums... once the forums have popped up.. go to Other stuff ... My name is IB... they're innitials so once you see the innitials IB, you will know that's me... look at my siggy and there's my email address... you can email me and i can talk to you one-on-one.
What goes down must come up. This has to be true for this situation too. It's all in your attitude ... Keep you chin up and keep hunting for jobs. I've been trying for a year now and still haven't got one. But i'm still trying. If you're afraid to fail, you'll never win. Stay positive, okie?
SolitaryTear ~ When we said you couldn't post your email address, we didn't say you could post HOW to get to it. Stop trying to get around the rules okie? Please?
in my experience, when bad stuff happens, you get down about it,and then something not great will happen, and it'll seem like the worst thing in the world. pretty soon you feel like you're stuck in this hole, and you can't quite see over the edge. you look at everything in a different way, like you know stuff was okay before, but you can't quite remember how to be like that. the good news is it don't last. you can get through it, you can get another job- and maybe everything does happen for a reason and this next job will be better, or through it you'll meet someone who'll change your life. just remember as long as you're alive there are a milion ways your life could go, and nothing lasts forever- not even the bad stuff. i hope that wasn't too pollyanna for you, cause theres some truthful stuff in there, however dumb it sounds. good luck x
Posts: 29 | From: London, England | Registered: Jul 2001
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There are so many more employers out there willing to take on a capable young woman such as yourself. Your mother's cruelty in reminding you of what you were falsly accused of is not needed in this situation and I suggest you try and ignore it as best you can. YOU know you haven't done wrong so its time to pick your feet back up and get out there and show them who's boss!
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