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The Confused One
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I'm sure many people have come to this situation before. You're in public and you're horny. You can't exactly go to the toilet either. What do you do? Any suggestions?

I've had this happen to me quite a few times. Theres usually no reason whatsoever, I just get horny. Trying to ignore it doesn't help at all. I get tensed up and my thighs start cramping. Fidgeting is not uncommon.

So far, I haven't found a way to get relief fast. Have you?

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Jacob at Scarleteen
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Hey!

I'm not sure I've ever had cramps etc... but I don't think fidgeting is a major problem, nor is just feeling turned on itself etc. So I don't really try to ignore it. Maybe in being accepting about that I'm less desperate to get relief?

Or maybe we're just different.

I also think it's cool to go to the toilet, especially if it's this much of a problem. I think some people would feel uncomfortable with the idea of someone masturbating where they pee. But if it's causing you this much discomfort then I'm not sure I can see THAT much difference between needing to pee and needing to orgasm, just for the purpose of physical comfort, so long as you're hygenic etc. I think toilets should be a private place!

And there should usually be a toilet where-ever you are.

If not that's something to complain about!

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The Confused One
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Haha, yeah well, I tried getting relief in the toilet before. Took me half an hour... not something you'd wanna do in the middle of a lecture for example... >.>

Also, it tends to get seriously hot in toilets =/ They need to install fans, damnit... It's already freaking Malaysia, hellooooo, tropical country = heat!

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Claire P.
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Hi The Confused One,
What about thinking of something that *doesn't* turn you on? I have a friend who thinks of socially or otherwise uncomfortable situations when she's feeling turned on and wants to get rid of the feeling. I'm not sure if that's the kind of thing you're asking for, but I know that strategy works for some!

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The Confused One
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Hmm, that's actually a good idea! Unfortunately, I have no idea what turns me off ._. I've been pretty disinterested and 'so?' kinda feeling towards anything I don't like... even scat... >.>

Which is seriously disgusting to me, but it doesn't turn me off once I get horny. I was always told by older friends that the constantly horny thing was always a problem, I never knew it could be painful XD

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