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Niki98
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I'm pregnant by my older sister's bf. I'm only 13. I'm now 2 months pregnant. I haven't told anyone yet. I haven't had any prenatal care. My mom made a comment the other day about the weight I have gained. About my stomach getting fat. She thinks it's a puberty thing. She has no idea that I have sex. I've been messing around with my sister's bf for almost 6 months now. I'm still doing it. I can't help myself. I'm addicted to sex. All of the boys my age from school are virgins and not ready to have sex. Even if they were, they probably wouldn't know what they were doing. I don't know what to do. I'm affraid to tell my mom. My sister is going to kill me. This boy is 17. He's not ready to be a father. I'm not ready to be a mother.
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Heather
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Niki, I'm sorry that you're in this spot, but I'm glad you came and asked for help.

Sex addiction is something that actually isn't mostly supported by sexologists, and we can talk about that later, and what might actually be the real issue around you doing things you don't want to or don't feel right about, (and we also have a crime to talk about here regarding this older boy, since per the laws of your state, he committed statutory rape here) but let's deal with the more immediate crisis first, okay?

First things first: have you verified that you are pregnant with a pregnancy test?

[ 07-11-2011, 09:52 AM: Message edited by: Heather ]

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Niki, I'm concerned we didn't hear back from you, so I'm just checking in.

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