What i soo hate about guys nowadays is that whenever you see them their with a different girl!! why cant they stop playing around and be with ONE girl!! GRRR! Like in videos u see the guys with ALL different girls and i just cant stand it!! i suppose im not really loking for an answer here but why do they do it!! jeez! does anybody else feel the same?
Posts: 49 | From: Frankfort IL USA | Registered: Jul 2002
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quote:Originally posted by PiNkRoSe13: does anybody else feel the same?
Nope. Because we're not all like that. Aside from the fact that broad-based generalizations are not acceptable here, it's certainly not a good idea to base your entire perception of men on what you see in videos.
I can assure you that there are a great many men out there who are perfectly happy with one significant other. To be sure, there are some people, both male and female, who like to cheat on their partners or who are not satisfied with just one person. But its certainly rather unfair to paint an entire gender with that broad brush, and that is not the sort of thing that we encourage here.
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Old Madonna videos had her surrounded by lots of different men, the same way a lot of music videos with male artists are full of female dancers. It's not a representation of life, it's just a music video thing.
I don't tend to notice that most men I know switch partners with great speed, but I do know a lot of them have female friends, and like socialising with them, so maybe that's what you're seeing. It's also important to realise that unless someone's in a monogamous relationship, monogamy really isn't an important convention, and when people are still young and trying to sort out who and what they like, it's really normal to be interested ina lot of different people.
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I can kind of see where you're coming from, Pink, as I know some guys like that, but still, it's not fair to use such an over-generalization.
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