I don't think there's any real secret. You just have to find what makes you happy.
For me i guess it's my friends, my family just whatever. I just try and surround myself with postive.
'I can't turn off the naked people. I am imagining everybody naked, it's automatic now!'-Jeff Murdock
'Steve, sex with two whole women, think of the advantages...they can't both fall asleep. If one of them suddenly leaves or punches you, you've still got one left. If one of them plays that old sneaking out of the window trick, there's someone there to untie you. It's total genius.' -Jeff Murdock