ok. This sux sooo much. I hate him. grrr. want to know why? my " boyfriend" and i have been " going out " for a tiny while. my mom doesn't believe in "dating" so we've been donig stuff, like, the mall etc. He, by the way, was a really nice guy who i never thought would be such an *** . ( sorry, bud gurl) i just called him to see if we were going to my friends party. He said that he was busy and that he couldn't go. Fine with me. I asked why and he said, oh, stuff. WHat stuff i asked? oh, he said, there's a good movie on that night. o k. thought that was odd. Then in the back ground ( btw, he's 15, i'm 13) i heard someone say come on ________ ( not goinmg to say his name)the movie starts with in 20 minutes. I asked him if he was tacking his sister to a movie tonight, it sounded like her. No, he said. Itsmynewgirlfriendweneedtoseeotherpeoplebye and hung up the phone!!!!!!!! what is with that??
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Posts: 39 | From: the nose ring of iowa. ( get out a map of the USA and look it up peeps) | Registered: Sep 2000
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Sweet Chick, you're 13. He's 15. Sometimes relationships with people different ages work out, but most of the time, and especially in your early teens, it's a passing thing.. there is a world of difference between being 13 and 15..
My only suggestion to you, is to let it go.. guys can be jerks. But there are nice guys out there too. This guy you were seeing sure sounds immature.. but think of it this way:
"If you don't go out with the bad ones, how will you know what to compare the really nice ones to?"
Take it easy, enjoy being 13, and don't worry about him..
sorry it happened to ya. but it happens. can't really justify it, but all i can say is forget him and find another boy. or just enjoy being 13. imho, too many people are in a hurry, worrying about boys and what not. there's plenty of time for that, so why now?
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Posts: 12677 | From: Los Angeles, CA ... somewhere off the 10 | Registered: Jul 2000
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I have to agree with Redhead and Gumdrop, only... it *does* sucks right now, Sweet Chick. Most of us have been there, and it's no better or more/less important to you and your life at 13 or 16 (and I'm guessing beyond that, as well). Again, you *are* 13, which means... good news! There are many, many more guys out there, and you are only just beginning to explore your possibilities. In time, you shall forget the loser. He isn't worth your emotional effort. In the meantime, try expressing your feelings creatively- do you like to write? Dance? Play some kind of music? It sounds corny, but people are always saying it for a reason.. anything that distracts you will likely hasten your trip towards feeling better.
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