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troublemaka
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help me!!! i cant stop lying!! ive lied about so much stuff is unbelieible. ive lied about sex...ive lied about getting my period{when all my friends started i didnt want to be left out} and about life itself. i cant stop every time i make up a new lie i feel that everyones attention is on me and im in power ...but i hate lying cuz then i have a hard time telling it the same way more then once.. i NEED help!
ps. its kinda ironic that i want to be an actress when i grow up>

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Ashley
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okay.....Make Goals for yourself. Or punishments. Maybe you should write,"Don't lie!" On your hand.(Just kidding)Lying is a bad thing, but I guess you know that.It's a good thing that you know that you have a problem with it. I figure that most people whom lie, are scared of a truth about something. I don't know what that would be in your case, but you know. Just try really hard not to lie, and that's the best thing you can do! Good-Luck!

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Heather
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Usually, when people lie constantly, it's because they feel that the truth about them isn't very impressive, or that they have some reason to be ashamed of who they really are.

Having seen you post before, troublemaka, I know that isn't so. You have a lot to offer, and you're great just as you are.

The only thing you're covering up by lying is the wonderful person beneath it. Start over. Be brave. Remind yourself that the truth of you is a whole lot better than a fictional account.


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StilQuackn
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I had the same problem. Finally I told one of my good friends about it. He got mad at me and didn't trust anything I said for a while. It made me realize I was just hurting myself when I lied. Soon after that, everytime I lied I felt bad and told him I had lied. Now I don't lie because everytime I do he gets mad. It took me a while to stop lying completely but now I don't lie.
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troublemaka
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Thanx for ur advice, i really would like to thank Miz Scarlet, i think i need more reasurance, and confidance to stop this mad cycle.
<3- Katelin

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