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I like a boy but how do I know if he likes me too?
I need help.
Please?

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Heather
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Well, you can ask him, which is usually the quickest, most sound way to find that out.

Or, you can think about the ways you have shown him you like him, and think about if he seems to be behaving similarly around you.

Or, you can just spend some more time with him to see how you both get on together and feel about each other, which is what you would do if he had that kind of interest in you anyway, right? [Smile]

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Thank, you. I just really like him but I've dated his cousin and I thought that may be the reason he's hesitating...

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There's really just no way to know why he seems like he's hesitating unless he tells you. [Smile]

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I just wish he would tell me... I'm sick of the friend-zone...

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Might also want to think about the fact that expecting him to tell you if he likes you, when you aren't willing to do that yourself? Well, for whatever reasons you aren't saying anything, I'm sure he has his own, if he has these feelings.

Someone has to go first putting these feelings out there. It's okay if you don't want it to be you, but that doesn't mean that waiting to find out is on THIS guy, or is out of your control.

You only have to wait for him to say something, if he has something to say, if you *choose* to do that. If you don't want to wait around, by all means, you can choose not to! [Smile]

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